What if u have a really bad guilt? u get guilty at everything u do?like saying "no"?

Question

i get guilty at everything tht i do wrong ........it is really irritating......even things like saying no .... making someone fall.....even telling the truth (if it is mean) what should i do?

Answer 1

That feeling comes from putting other people on pedestals. Spend some time each day just clearing your thoughts and seeing other people as they really are. Over time you'll come to realize that you're as good as any of them and you won't feel this way any more because you'll value your own thoughts and time as much as anyone else's.

Answer 2

My view of guilt is this.  Guilt is usually a waste of emotion UNLESS it is a guilt the motivates change in a positive way.  Any guilt that is senseless, pointless and unfounded is a detriment to our spirits and souls and instead leads only to discouragement, depression, anxiety and demoralizing of self.  

If you feel that kind of constant guilt over nothing - I think you need to seek a counselor who can fortify you and help you feel and be stronger and more confident in yourself.

Answer 3

That condition is a form of co-dependency. I would recommend you seek counseling from someone who understands and knows how to treat the condition. There is help.

It would be best if it was Christian counseling, as you may be able to find complete victory by learning how to take everything to Christ.

Answer 4

There are 2 different types of guilt. Good guilt that leads you to repentance and then is done away with, and bad guilt, which causes you to try and hid from God and not focus on doing His will.  Bad Guilt leads you away from repentance and forgiveness.  So, if you feel guilty about something...ask yourself what kind of guilt it is.

Answer 5

Tell yourself to stop making you feel guilty about matters of importance, and probably the only reason you feel guilty is because the people or person you are saying no to doesn't fully accept you. So if you say no to them they may reject you in some form, or abandon you. Therefore we must accept ourselves whole heartily when making decision, because people pleasing others will lead to unhealthy attitudes and relationships. Also tell yourself saying no is a healthy, because it draws a line between right and wrong and good and evil. It separates the boys from the men and the girls from the women. It would also be a good idea  to distinguish your feeling from your actions because feelings are temporary if done in the right perspetive we want good actions with good results, not a necessary for a good feeling all the time, results is what matters, whats decent for all sakes.

Answer 6

its true that, the he first time mohammed married almost double his age older woman ( a mother figure)

muslims say around age 40, mohammed attained prohpesy...

after attaining prophesy only.. mohammed married that 6yrs old child girl and as soon as the child girl got matured(physically) he had s*x with her

well, i tell you..

MORALS are always MORALS, now or 1400 yrs ago, its not about Laws, its not about traditions, Mohammed was already a prohpet, supposed to have communication with God.. being a wise man, he shouldnt have done this, How can mohammed marry & have s*x with that Tiny girl? the girl though matured physically, she was still a child, she wasnt matured mentally at all

(muslims support marrying the child girl by..

Mohammed needed a wife to see his house hold things & to look after his children

lmao, how can this 6 or 9 yr old girl look after his children & do house hold works? (child-labour?)

and some say, he didnt have s*x at 9 may be later, they simply "lived" together

well, if this was the case, why they started immidiately after her v****a got broadened? why not immidiatelly after marriage when she was at 6)

and to SUPPORT women, he need not to MARRY every WIDOW, he can protect those women by simply Giving Maintanance Money & Ordering other Men around.. not to Harrass them Physically

but this WISE Man.. wants s*x s*x.. Mohammed Lured.. someone else's Wives!

its a bitter truth, mohammed was a characterless, woman-phycho

Mohammed was supposed to eradicate bad systems, but he simply followed the tradition, Married TOO Many Women that he can shake his STICK at, this clearly states, he wasnt a prohpet, he was a "FAKE"