What if you're 12/13 year old daughter said shes pregnant?

Question

What would you do

Answer 1

NO one would ever know about it.  

Answer 2

Well if she is, it obviously won't be easy for her. First of all, most people are gonna look down on her, it's sad but thats the way it is. She needs you to support her all the way through it.

Answer 3

k..well don't pay any attention to these ppl in here..as a parent i would have to support my daughter..because i love her..but like any other parent i would be very disappointed with her..because i would think she could make the right  decision... but what ever decision she makes i'll have to support her..even if it leads to aborting. hope that answers your question and i hope your not pregnant especially if your 13.

Answer 4

I would let her go through with the pregnancy but I would make her give the child up for adoption.

Answer 5

I would get her prenatal care and prepare for the baby. I would make sure she understood what happened was wrong but I can't change the past so yelling at her wouldn't solve anything.

I would file a lawsuit against her boyfriend (or whoever did it), hire the best lawyer in town, and sue the boy and his parents for as much as I could, then have him thrown in jail for rape.

Answer 6

watc h the secret lifee of an american teenager on abc

Answer 7

My mom told me she would tear it right our of me or take me to the clinic lol. She says she would do it now and I'm almost 18 but at 12 she would've pushed me down the stairs lol! She just wants me to be old enough to be able to support it and be a good mother.  

Answer 8

bad parenting, for your child to be in this position to begin with. Where is the true strong father in the picture?...12, 13 years old?...babies making babies these days...

Answer 9

I would tell her I was disappointed in her, then call a doctor so she could get prenatal vitamins and stuff.

Answer 10

Goddamn.....that wouldn't happen if she was MY daughter....I would hope to raise her a h**l of a lot better than that. Which is also why I really don't want kids in the first place.....

Answer 11

be confused because she would have never been out of my sight and near a boy in the first place.

Answer 12

haha i am 13

but i know my mom flip out if i told her i was prego.

Answer 13

I don't have a daughter, but I would make her aboard it - she is way to young to put her body throu 9 months. becoming a mother and looking after a child.  

Answer 14

I would cry and cry some more. Then talk about her options. very sad.

Answer 15

I sure as h**l wouldn't abort it.

Thats murder.

I don't like murder. >:O

Answer 16

im 14 and pregnant

its hard and im only 4 months gone

im giving (i think him) away for adoption

its the best way,and abortion is not the option,keeping him is not an option either

my mum was very angry,especially bcoz she did not even know i had a boyfriend  :P

but well she had to deal with it,you just DO,u can force her unless ur state has weird laws(i live in england,so i have a lot of support from the government if my mother flipped or something)

its really hard,but make sure she understands EVERY single option possible

maybe have a test done for HIV etc

hope it goes well and i helped a bit xoxo

p.s dont listen to those idiots saying ''i would push her down the stairs'' or ''hit her ! ''etc thats just imature

Answer 17

Realistically as a man, I'd probably become very angry, hunt down the father, and yell at my daughter for being a s**t. After that I'd cool down only a bit. Only to realize it was my fault for being a terrible parent.

Seriously that's REALLY young to even be having and kind of s*x.

Answer 18

I'd blame myself for not knowing that she was having s*x...

if i ever have a daughter,

the day she gets her period, she is going on the pill

Answer 19

I'm 13- I would be in soooo much trouble, it makes me shiver even to think about it. I don't want to know what would happen.

Answer 20

im not sure what i would do but i would be very very angry.

other people on here said they would be supportive but i dont think i could. if she wanted support and advice she should have come to me before she started having s*x.

thats if i had a daughter. because i dont.

anyway i dont even want kids. too much trouble. i know because me and my brothers drive my parents crazy.

Answer 21

I wouldn't beat her while she was pregnant because I wouldn't want to harm the baby but after she had the  baby I would give her the beating of her life. Also I would not let her take the easy way out and get an abortion. Its not the baby's fault its her fault and the boy she was with. If she was willing to lay there and do what she did she can get up and take the responsibilities. I would make her grow up really fast because that is exactly what she did when she slept with that boy. She decided to get involved with MARRIED ADULT THINGS and as a result she is now in the situation she is in. SHe deserves to be punished and placed in a phone less, dateless, amish existence. Also she would not be able to be involved in things teens would normally be involved in like going to the movies or things like that because she will have to go to work or do something to provide for that child because like I said before she was willing to do what it took to get the baby so she needs to take responsibility for her actions

Answer 22

Ooooohhh, Lord have mercy! Unless it was because she was raped I'd be disappointed. I wouldn't punish her though because there's no point in my opinion. I wouldn't kick her out either because there's no way a girl that young would survive out there by herself plus it's illegal and furthermore no grandchild of mine is living in poverty. I'd discuss options with her and let her make the choice.  

Answer 23

She would beat the **** out of me and never let me leave the house. Probally send me away so people wont know.    

Answer 24

id laugh because i wouldnt belive her

if it was true i would hunt the boy down who raped my daughter because no 12 y/o child can be held responsible for getting pregnant , they are just CHILDREN

Answer 25

Support her through the months, and try to help her not ruin her life