What if your friend changes when she comes back after her first year of college what do you do?

Question

My close friend that I used to have, we were tight.... every since i moved she was one of the first people that i talked to.... we were both in high school... and finally graduated... she went off to college before i did... a year later she came back and she totally changed... i talked to her nuthin changed..... now she looks at me like im a total stranger!!! WHATS YOUR SUGGESTION???

Answer 1

try talking to her like old times. maybe call her up or send an email. sadly friends change and sometimes you can go back to then, but other times you just have to move on. I know it's sad, but we just have to move on if things don't work

Answer 2

People change all the time. Is this a good change or bad change is what you need to decide. If it's a good change that's good thing maybe you can learn from her. But if it's bad one I would tell her how I feel about it. And if she don't change you need to find another friend.

Answer 3

happened to me too.... :(

what i found to be best though, is too put him/her in the past, not to hope for friendship of old.

stay friendly with them, but dont look at them as you used to.

Answer 4

Talk to her about what's going on. Maybe something horrible happened to her. Try to talk about the good times both of you had, so she could think about opening up to you. I always feel like I need to change because everybody is growing up and forgetting about the past. She could be upset at you for not going with her to college. She could of found a new friend. I would suggest to be mature, and accept the fact that people change, as well as life. You could try to find another friend to hang out with while she's gone, she could be doing that.

Answer 5

JUST FORGET HER THEN AND PICK SOMEONE ELSE TO BE YOUR FRIEND....making friends is not that hard....lol

Answer 6

unfortunately friends do change and there's nothing you can do i've had so many friends come and go and it hurts alot but first talk to her and tell her how you feel if nothing changes move on

Answer 7

People change all the time.  As you get older, you'll constantly be making new friends and leaving outgrown friends behind.  The two best friends I have now have been in my life less than ten years.  Recently, I hooked up with my best friend from childhood.  We were absolutely inseperable at the time.  We lived next door to each other, went to the same school and our birthdays were days apart.  We shared so many secrets.  Now, we have practically nothing in common.  That's just the way life is.  People have different experiences as they grow up and go down different paths from each other.