What if your mom really

Question

didnt approve of your bf and demanded you stop talking to him would you?

Answer 1

depends on your age and how your bf REALLY is.  get a second opinion on your bf.  Maybe she is right, maybe not.  

Don't just go by what 1 person says.  Gather up as much thoughts and opinions as you can.  

Then conclude what to do.

Answer 2

i would explain to her how i felt about him and that she wasn't in control of my life anymore.

Answer 3

I probably wouldn't, but this is only because I'm older.

If you are younger than I would listen to your parents a little bit,  If he is way older than you...than I would listen and if he is a delinquent I would listen.

My parent's once didn't approve of my boyfriend because he was mean to me, but I was crazy in love and he broke up with me one day after 8 months and I was devestated, but it was the best thing that ever happen to me, because me new boyfriend is great and we've been together for two-years!

Think about if you had a daughter, would you let them date your boyfriend, if not then I think you need to get out of this relationship.

Answer 4

I would listen to my mom. I once had a bf that my parents hated and I did evry thing my parents told me not to for him. He turned out to be worse than my parents said he was, I was just too young and too blind to see at the time. If your parents are anything like mine they are only looking out for you. I regret not listening to mine.  

Answer 5

Before you decide to completely rebel, you might want to honestly consider her concerns.  Remember that although sometimes parents simply can't help resisting their children growing up, they always really want what's best for their babies.  Your mom has been your age.  She probably has a good sense of what kind of person is good for you.  Take a good look at this guy and see if he measures up.  Is he honest, trustworthy, hardworking, and reliable?  Does he have goals similar to yours?  If he truly is a good candidate you might consider listing his qualities to your mom.  Just don't be surprised if she furnishes her own list, too.

Answer 6

First I would require her to explain the reason behind her not approving the BF.

If her reasons make sense, may be I will re-evaluate the bf, but else its my way.