What if your parents are always on your case ? and they always want to control your life??? what should i do??

Question

What if your parents are always on your case ? and they always want to control your life??? what should i do??

Answer 1

Believe it or not, your parents are doing the best they can. If I were you I would tough it out til you graduate from high school.

Answer 2

ohkayy. i have no idea how old you  are ut im guessing they;re just trying to protect you. theres a lot of things going throught their minds. let it go...but if it gets tot eh point that they are calling you every 2 seconds, you just might want to consider sitting down with them and tell them that tyou understand where theyre coming from, but you DO need some space and time to live your own life. you will never learn if you dont make some mistakes on your own.

Well. Hope this helps :]

Answer 3

Are you a child? If so then listen to your parents, they are trying to protect you & help you reach maturity in a safe & happy way.

If you are an adult on the other hand, then your parents job of raising you is done, & they can't control your life unless you let them.

Answer 4

Your parents are always on your case and want to control your life because THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOU. If you do something wrong/bad they will pay the price, either in emotions or money. They do it in part because they love you and don't want you to make any mistakes, and in part because they don't want you to embarass them. They know how easy it is to do the wrong thing, without realizing what the consequences will be (maybe they made mistakes when they were your age).

Answer 5

SLAP THEM iN  THE FACE......and its obvious they want to control your life there your parents you idiot! and if that doesn't work buy a gun and shoot them be really harsh ok???  

Answer 6

they are watching out for you and care for u they may expect alot but you know when u look back you will find it was for your own good liston to them and respect them but try to live by what they expect a little and try to break away and be your own person as well dont break away to much though you have time grow  

Answer 7

Tell them straight out. GET IN THEIR FACE honey. Let them know you need ur privacy and they need theirs and they need to understand that. If your a bad kid, then maybe thats why theyre on ur case. But if ur parents just nosy, kick them in the nose!

Answer 8

The truth is that every one has a point in there life where they are forced to listen to their parents. Sometimes we think that our parents are out to get us, when really all they want is to protect us.

Just sit down and explain to them that you think that you should have a little more freedom than they give you. If you say "your controling me" etc. they will not want to cut slack. So just tell them you want to do _________ and in return you will clean the kitchen.

You cant jump from nothing to everything so only expect realistic things. Your parents mean well im sure.

Answer 9

Rebel

Peace

Answer 10

let them they know whats best for you and they just want whats best they want u to be happy even though it doesnt seem like it  

Answer 11

Either quit arguing with them and do what they say or get a job and move out.

Answer 12

I need more specific input.

Answer 13

controlling = parenting

their doing the best they can.

make them trust you.

xo,

Heart

Answer 14

Deal with it.  If you're not 18 yet, you're still legally under their control.  It's called parenting.

Answer 15

if you of age move out take care of yourself if you not doing it already  remember its mom and dads house .good-luck

Answer 16

do what the heck you want to do.  Always give them respect but remember that they will have you going down the same bumpy tore-up rode they went down.  You only get one life to live and you don't want to be 80 years old thinking about what you could of done or should of done.

your parents won't let you do what you want without a fight, so be prepared and take advantage of the services provided by the CPS and the child abuse hotlines.  People there can help you get new parents who may or may not be better suited to take care of you.

Just do what YOU want to do and don't concern yourself with those who think they know what's best because they probably don't.

Answer 17

Welcome to being a teenager, that's a typical parent for you. Show them that they can trust you... And they'll eventually give you more freedom.

Answer 18

It depends on what you mean by control your life. If by control you mean they stop you from doing all the bad and stupid things like drinking and drugs and being with bad company or getting pregnant at 13 then that's not control. That's guidance and showing you the right things.