What if your "first" contacted you 20 yrs later and you were divorced .......?

Question

what would you think if the first peron you had s*x with contacted you over the internet and you had just gotten divorced?What would be your reaction?

Answer 1

i be like "HEEEEYYYY DUDE!!! way to mess things up then, gonna try it again now that im on my own?"

Answer 2

it would be tempting but you shouldnt move on until you are completely over the X marriage parter

even if they were in ur life b4  

Answer 3

I would say hi and bye.

I have no interest in my first, I don't live in the past. I left my first for a reason and I have no desire to rekindle what I rejected.

Answer 4

I would be thinking...wow. Great timing! Maybe start a conversation, an innocent one. Then see where things go. Catch up a little.

I cant help you much. Im married to my first (and only).

Good Luck

Answer 5

He is just contacting at a vonerable time in order to get sone booty!

Answer 6

If you are interested and he/she is too, try it. It will be like you are meeting again. Just don't fall into "we've already had s*x, no reason to wait" thing. It has been 20 years.

Answer 7

i'd try to get her address so my girlfriend and sister could beat the c**p out of her.  

Answer 8

how you re act would depend on how your relationship was with them . i would say hi and bye because knowing my ex and how we had broken up he would laugh at me for being divorced.  

Answer 9

I wouldn't respond! !

Answer 10

For me it would depend on how things ended.  If it was 20 years later, I'm sure if it ended poorly I would have forgotten by then! :-)  It's easy to romanticize the past but nostalgia sure is strong.  So I think I would talk either on the phone or through e-mail for awhile before meeting up with this person.  The temptation might be too great to hook up again as a rebound.