In my fifth decade of being an adopted person, I have heard hundreds of supposedly self-evident 'truths' about adoption that I know are inherently false.
What phrases, parts of speech, or 'truths' have you heard about adoption, that you believe are untrue for most adoptees or the adoptive situation?
Or maybe truths that are denied by some as inauthentic?
If these truths and non-truths are perpetuated, is it damaging for adopted children? Please give example and reason WHY it's wrong or right.
An example of my own, and why it's wrong:
"I just know God meant for me to be the mother of my little Madisyn!"
The person who makes a statement like this is saying that God makes mistakes. If God were controlling everything here on Earth, wouldn't he keep 'Madisyn' with the mother she was given to naturally? And wouldn't God make every woman fertile? Also makes a kid resent God, they'd wonder WHY God would take her away from her mother.
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