What is Tantric s*x?

Question

I want to know what it is? what are the benefits? how to do it? and how long does it take to master? thanks

Answer 1

The goal of Tantric s*x is to allow us to experience more depth and breadth in our sexuality. The goal is not necessarily o****m, but rather enriching the whole sexual experience.

In Tantric s*x the point of s*x is not o****m, the point is to feel. There is no clear cut beginning middle or end.(as sexual excitement,penetration,o****m). Most of the exercises related to Tantric s*x involve slowing things down, trying not to focus on our external body, or o****m, or anything outside of our experience of the moment.

Tantra also teaches s*x should be a celebrated union between two people, rather than something taboo or sinful. It’s a way of opening the flow of energy between partners and showing how the role of the mind, body and spirit are all equally important for the sexual experience.

Who is Tantric s*x Good For? Many of the teachings are about desire and the experience of sexual energy.Tantra teachings do not focus on external evaluations of what our body looks like, what kind of car we drive, how we wear our hair.

Before you roll your eyes, understand if you take this seriously, you will experience s*x like never before; We’re talking multi-level orgasms — full body convulsions for both men and women. It’ll also change your daily life — you’ll see the world through different eyes.

Tantric s*x is about channeling your energies. Next time you’re “in the act,” focus on the sensation in your genitals and try to move it throughout your body. It is helpful to imagine it in your head — picture the energy coursing up and down each leg, across your torso, even into your head.

By gaining control over your energy, you are no longer passive to your sexual urges. This can change your life forever — from helping men who pre-ejaculate to allowing both men and women to reach full body orgasms.

When you’ve been practising Tantra for a long time, the techniques meld into your normal s*x routine so easily, it’s difficult to remember what old s*x used to feel like.

On the other hand, there are awkward moments when you’re first learning. You’ll be sitting naked with your partner, trying to figure out whose foot goes where and how, but if you trust each other and you communicate, it shouldn’t be a problem.

Positions/Techniques:

Daily Devotion

This can be very difficult to master, but is great for healing and gaining greater connection between partners. You should be locked in four places: your mouths, legs, arms and genitals. The key to this position is to master enough self-control to stay motionless.

The Scissors

This begins with no physical movement.  Both partners should envision an orange sphere of energy radiating from their sexual centres. Enter into a meditative state by sending your energy back and forth between each other. Contract the vaginal muscles regularly to help stimulate the male erection. This can be great before or after s*x.

Yab-Yum

This is a great position for improving your connection with your partner. Sit like this for up to half an hour. Gaze into each other’s eyes and share your feelings about each other. Say things like, “What I enjoy about making love is...” and “What I don’t enjoy about making love is...”

The Nurturing Position

this position can be used to bond during an argument. Both your heart and sexual centres are connected, which certainly makes it difficult to stay angry for long. It’s also generally just a very comfortable position and is great for cuddling after s*x as well.

What Tantric s*x “looks like” will be different for different people. Tantra is taught by many teachers around the world, who have their own take on it, influenced by the cultures they grew up in. Certainly a key feature of Tantric s*x is the importance of breathing, and slowing down sexual behavior compared to the hectic, o****m-focused of the  western concept of s*x  approach.

Tantric s*x:Reaching the peak of pleasure or an o****m with your senses,without a sexual intercorse.

Answer 2

It is a form of yoga that is s*x acts for moving your kundalini.  It is supposed to add to longevity and perfect your being, if done properly <not for pleasure>.  It would take a lifetime.

Tantracism started in India and is practiced in Bali and as a Buddhist practice in Tibet.  

When people speak of this practice, they mainly

refer to the Kama Sutra, although there are other texts.

Answer 3

It's a Tibetan Buddhist discipline, and as far as I know, it's the skill of using s*x as a form of meditation that can help you get nearer to enlightenment. You can have a Tantric anything- tantric shopping, tantric accounting, tantric skiing etc etc. Learning all you need to learn to things in a Tantric way 'safely' (in spiritual terms) takes many many years and a lot of reading & meditation practise. Google it; there's loads of information online. You're better off taking a book out of the library about it though as the info is likely to be more reliable. Even better than that, go to your local buddhist center and ask!