What is YOUR interpretation of this weird dream?

Question

I asked myself to dream about the guy I most desire. I ended up dreaming about my guy friend that I HAD a crush on after he kept sending mixed signals. Lots happened, but I remember going in a group to a dorm party. I was looking at the guy b/c everyone was laughing at him b/c I liked him. He took me by the arms into a room that looked like a kindergarten class. He showed me a picture with 4 provocative pics in the corners and one pic of a woman hugging a man in the middle. He said if I want guys to like me, I have to be more like this. I said, "s**y?" and he said, no, less old-fashioned and open up. He said he would tell me he liked me if I would change, and I told him I would be honest about my feelings if I knew how he felt. We were silent and I could FEEL how much we liked/cared about each other. What does this mean!?

Answer 1

you probably still have feelings for him  

Answer 2

Your dream seems pretty straightforward... it's a call to take a chance on this guy-- to be 'less old-fashioned and open up' more... apparently, you guys didn't connect, because you were both so worried about being the first one to come forward w/ your feelings, & possibly getting hurt, as a result-- in the dream, you say you 'would be honest about [your] feelings if [you] knew how he felt.' In other words, if you're honest w/ yourself, you'd realize that you still have feelings for this guy-- you're just afraid he won't reciprocate. But in the dream, he's telling you how to insure that he will like you back-- 'be 'less old-fashioned and open up' more-- whatever that means to you, that's what you need to do, to bring love into your life...

This guy kept sending mixed signals, in real life, but your subconcious is aware of his (and your) true feelings-- in the dream, you say you 'could FEEL how much we liked/cared about each other'... your dream is saying, don't be such a scaredy cat-- he probably feels the same way you do, and will respond in kind, if only you are willing to 'open up', & be the first one to come forward/ show him how you really feel...

...don't wait for him to profess his love-- initiate a conversation w/ him about it, and get things out in the open-- the worst thing he can say is no...

Answer 3

It means you feel like guys don't like you for you. You think they want you to be more old fashioned. The reason it was him is because you do care for eachother but you feel like he wants somthing you can't give him. Maybe?