What is a good message/quote to send to my depressed friend?

Question

My friend's father was killed a couple of weeks ago and I think she might be falling into depression. I just want her to feel better. I want to send her a message on myspace.

I heard that one of the worst things is when people try to ignore that a tragedy has happened by just not talking about it.

I dont want to say something like they are in a better place because I don't think that is appropriate. Please any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Answer 1

you could maybe say something like "you're always in my thoughts bud/babe, keep your chin up" or "stay strong and celebrate the life he lived, instead of mourning his departure"... something that will acknowledge the fact that he died, without bringing too much attention to it

Answer 2

yeah shortee I dont think thats a good idea. especially if suicide could deffinatly kill her. Killed is not cool. I hope its like killed in a road accident or somthing. not like killed in a dark alley. But either way its bad. tell her this.

Those who truly love us never really leave. Your father was a great man. We should be proud our souls have crossed paths.

ps. your father would want you to be strong and live your life to the fullest. So from now on everything you do should be for him. because he is everywhere now.

Answer 3

If I were you I would write her something from my own mind so you could like thing of a quote or just write something...

My cousins friends dad died a few weeks ago too...

But it was fates decision right?

Answer 4

A good message always comes from the heart. Let your heart do the talking instead of us. Your silent presence with her in time may help her too.

Answer 5

What is her myspace link?  We can all send her a positive message and that should make her feel better.

Answer 6

Rather than use cliched quotes, be honest in expressing your concern. It is not good to be philosophical at this stage, since it is only a few weeks.

Tell her that  - Even though the emptiness would take a long time to heal, there are friends like you who are willing to share her grief and all she has to do is lean on your shoulders.

This can be tough, but such is life

Answer 7

"That which does not kill me can only make me stronger"... Always makes me feel better....