What is a good way to tell my dad I hate his girlfriend?

Question

My dad has been dating his girlfriend for a little over 2 years and I have hated her and her kids the whole time. They have recently started moving into my house and are driving me completely crazy!!! How should I tell him, and what are the possible outcomes?

Answer 1

why do you hate them?it takes a lot of energy to hate. Write him a letter expressing your feelings and then maybe he will see things your way if there is reason to.

Answer 2

There is no good way to tell him.

Answer 3

Make a:  I hate all of you t-shirt.  

That ought to be subtle enough eh?

Answer 4

First off, the important thing is why do you hate her?  Is it because she's a part of your dad's life or do you have a solid reason.  Would you like them if they weren't involved with your family?  He isn't going to be happy about it but most likely he already knows you dislike them and hoping that things will change with time.  I know for a fact through experience they can but it takes time.  If they treat you well give them a chance, even if you only do it out of respect for your dad.  If they don't treat you or your dad for that matter well that's a different story and you should talk to him.  I mean talk to him about it anyway just be honest with him and yourself and don't forget he may share things you say and feel with her in hopes to make things better.

Answer 5

I say try to stay away from the word "hate" and probably don't even say anything at all  

Answer 6

You don't say how old you are but, irregardless, you need to tell your father the truth about your feelings. Don't write anything down because it will come back to bite you in the butt later. If you're old enough to move out, then I would suggest doing so. Or you could go live with your mother (unless that's even worse). Good luck dear. I sure feel for ya. ♥ ∞

Answer 7

Personally you shouldn't think about hating her because maybe she's trying hard to get to know you and what not. Sure you may be upset that your dad is seeing another woman but you always have to look at it in two ways be selfish and only care about what you feel or be happy for your dad and actually try to like her.

Answer 8

UM, HE'LL PROBABLY BE MAD.

BUT AS LONG AS YOU ARE HONEST

WiTH HiM iM SURE HE'LL UNDERSTAND

JUST TRY TELLiNG HiM WHEN YOU

GUYS ARE ALONE LET HiM KNOW HOW

YOU FEEL.

Answer 9

I suggest you don't tell him that you hate her..He will only be mad and tell you it's his life..Try telling him that the idea of them moving in doesn't seam to be working. Ask him does he really love her 100%, because you are not sure you can blend in..How old are you?  He could suggest you find your own place if your out of school..Maybe you can find some way together to make it work..Just let him know how you feel without telling him you Hate them..that is strong words.

Answer 10

Don't say a thing you only aggravate things.  Let him make his own mistakes and hope that he do so sooner rather than later.

Answer 11

Say, Dad, I love`you but I just can't stay here with "Judy" and her kids.  I need to go stay with Mom for a while (or other relative).

Answer 12

Oooh, sounds like a tough situation :/

I would say Honesty is the best policy, no matter what;

It will definitely be hard to confront him, but it's best to because there's nothing worse than unresolved feelings and unspoken word.

Talk to him one-on-one and in a very rational, easing mood, tell him how you feel and why. Although if they're moving in it sounds kind of serious, but hopefully by talking to your father you all can work something out where everyone can be happy together.

Hope this helps! Good luck with the father talk :)