What is a good way to tell someone that your drifting apart?

Question

like i want to make her think about it.

because we havn't drifted. its more like we've been pulled.

so what is a good way to tell her we arn't like we used to be, and we are barley even bestfriends anymore?

Answer 1

Don't answer her texts to fast wait a few hours. Dont call her back the same day. Try not to go to the same places you know she will be there for a while. Eventually she will get the message without you having to be rude and fall out.

Answer 2

I have the EXACT same problem! Me and my friend have been BFF since we were like, two. And now we're thirteen, and shes hanging out with the wrong people, and shes changed ALOT! So, we're kinda drifting away, too. And, I dont really know what to do, either :/

Im sorry this answer doesnt help at all, but I starred you! [:

Answer 3

tell her the truth just say you don't feel like you guys are bffs anymore and that maby you should take a break, meet new people ect. Don't beat around the bush...

Answer 4

Be honest and the person probably knows and is asking themselves the same question as your asking.  Just open up the communication and see what happens. Good Luck

Answer 5

just start hanging out with her a little less gradually.if you just say straight "hey we've drifted apart" to her that would be just harsh.

next time she textes you just write a simple "hey.sorry.cnt tlk now.tons of chours i hve 2 do.tlk 2 u l8r.

when she calls let your mom answer and make a signal so you both know what to say like 3 fingers up means "take a message" and 1 finger will mean "ill get this call".that way she wont be able to hear you.

i do it alot.if im at my friends and she asks me to spend the night she stands next to me while i call my mom so she doesn't hear directly i wanna chill by myself i click my toung and my mom says "nope.mabey some other time.you have to wake up early tomorrow."

its really simple:]