What is a homophobic is it because it is a fear of own sexuality or narwo mined ?

Question

plz hear me out i am very homophobic and if you don't like honesty Thereses the door dose this meann i live in fear of my own sexuality or is it that i been brought up narow mined

Answer 1

It's an insulting term and a false accusation by homosexuals. They want to restrict free speech of others and accuse them of "hate speech," but in reality, they're using hate speech with this word.

Since the homosexuals are trying to ban free speech, "homophobia" should be included and it should be regarded as hate speech by them.

Answer 2

People are afraid of what they do not understand.

If you are not g*y how can you understand or believe that people can just be that way.  You do not understand so you dislike it.

We do not like being disliked so we stand up for ourselves.

Some people who do not understand feel threatend that we are not ashamed and accuse us of trying to convert them.

So we say what the h**l, we are what we are and we are proud (even though we are hurting)

Then some people hate us for it.

Thats how it goes.

Some people say that they are ok with it but would prefer that you weren't g*y.

Some peopole are nice because they think that everyone is entitled to be what they want to be but they think less of you

because they assume you have chosen to be that way.

Also we are programmed as humans to conform.  I really want to conform so I find being a L*****n difficult.  I like to have other peoples approval.  If I was less L*****n (as I believe people are differeent shades of straight or bi or g*y), maybe I would hide from this side of me.

Maybe I would begin to resent that some people appear happy with being g*y and annoyed that I couldn't acknowledge this part of me and hate them for it!

These are my theories.

I cannot blame you for feeling the way you feel the same as I can't help being a L*****n.

I try to be understanding of those that don';t know what it is like and would like to think that you make an effort not to make anyone g*y feel bad by being unkind to them :O)

I did not find your question offensive at all.

Answer 3

Hmm..so you're into rubber gloves, huh ;)

Umm...I think being homophobic really has to do with not understanding what something is and how it works. We fear the unknown, and fear eventually leads to hate. My best friend is homophobic as well, and from what I understand, it is because she is scared a L*****n will make the moves on her [??] So yeah...she also says it's just gross, I dunno. She's gonna have a stroke when I tell her I'm bi lol.

Answer 4

homophobia  (hō'mə-fō'bē-ə)  Pronunciation Key

n.  

   1. Fear of or contempt for lesbians and g*y men.

   2. Behavior based on such a feeling.

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You'll note that the majority of anti-g**s, intentionally or not, only acknowledge the fear based definition of the term, as in "I'm not afraid of g**s, so I can't be homophobic", when the vast majority of times it is their *contempt* of g**s & lesbians, and their refusal to see them as anything other than 2nd class (or lower) citizens, which brands them as such.

Answer 5

Is Therese the Door a relative of Nicola the Window?  

Answer 6

FORGET being Homophobic...you have much bigger problems to deal with... your education has suffered tremendously...you can't even SPELL!!!

Answer 7

Some object to this word—arguing that it literally means “man-fearing,” but the “homo” in “homosexual” and in this word does not refer to the Latin word for “man,” but is derived from a Greek root meaning “same” while the “-phobic” means literally “having a fear of,” but in English has come to mean “hating.” “Homophobic” is now an established term for “prejudiced against homosexuals.”  

Answer 8

To me, it means you are afraid of being around g*y people or influence and it usually is also indicative of having problems with your own sexuality. As in you are not confident in being hetero. An example would be the ex-soldier dad in American Beauty.

Answer 9

Honesty is everything, so you don't like g*y people, that's your right, all I ask is you try to understand that different people have different views that you may not agree with.

Do you think you are narrow minded? you cant be that bad, as at least you posted this question, which shows you are trying to understand yourself.

Answer 10

Homophobia - Insecure about being heterosexual

Why is homophobia insecure about being heterosexual? Because if a straight person is secure in their sexuality, then there would be no need to have something against g*y people.

You might also want to take a look at this: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/87720...

If you don't like honesty, then there's the door to leave the LGBT section where you can't just come in and spark controversy. Which you did. Mostly all of us LGBT people here know a troll when we see one because we're not stupid and we get trolls here everyday.

Answer 11

Narwo?

You've GOT to be kidding.

Homophobic is another one of those MADE UP THINGS.

I don't think anyone is really AFRAID of g*y people.  g*y people in an attempt to feel significant say: "STRAIGHT PEOPLE are AFRAID of us... or afraid of their feelings".  

I personally don't know of ANYONE who fears "gayness" of g*y people.  

And here we go again.   If you don't ACCEPT that one guy "corn-holing" another is NOT NORMAL... then it MUST be YOU have the problem.

If you don't accept that a person singing OFF-KEY doesn't sound GOOD... Then YOU must have a problem with acceptance.

Any person who looks at how the body is designed - can tell it wasn't designed for such activities.  (Hint g*y GUY... that's why George and John needs LUBE)  

I thing - that if YOU g**s expect us to ACCEPT your WAY OF LIFE, you need to accept our repulsion to it.   It's pretty gross!

Answer 12

Homophobia is an irrational hatred or fear of g*y people or g*y lifestyle.

Healthy heterosexual people dont care about what homosexuals do. they dont bother even talking about them, let alone hating them- and if they meet one, they treat them as a person, not as an object to be hated or distrusted. And they dont carry on like the g*y person is going to ask them out or hit on them, either.

if you dont like g*y people and are so fussed about how someone else lives their life, you are the one with the problem, *not* the g*y person.  

Answer 13

NO, IT IS GOOD,,,, HOMOPHOBIC IS PHOBIA OF g*y PEOPLE...

and I like it, normal guys feel that, puaaakkk.  

Answer 14

Well... I've always found that a peculiar word, because if you part it out in latin, it means you're literally afraid of men.  Meaning you would react to men like most women would at a spider.  This term is a misnomer, and I wish society would change that bit.

Well, we're all very glad you've come "out of the closet" of being afraid of g*y people.  (Not to say that you're g*y yourself)  I'm not a freudian, personally... I don't believe every motive in the world is related to one's own sexual desires.

Does it mean you live in fear of your own sexuality?  It's a possibility... Does it mean you've been brought up narrow minded?  Maybe.  What's important at this point... is what you do with your realization.  Are you going to continue down the same path you are now?  Are you going to try to correct yourself?  

What you need to realize about g*y people, is that most want to just mind their own business.  Please don't go out and be aggressive against people that mean you no harm.

In the end, I hope a positive result comes out of your realization.