What is a normal amount of times a couple should have s*x?

Question

I am a man in a relationship! I am told s*x is for special occasions.

Like holidays or birthdays. And it should be special. Help me, my friends call me blue balls..

Answer 1

well me and my fiance have been going out for 7 months now and she was my first but beccause we are comfortable with each other we have s*x heaps of times when ever we get the chance. through 1 day well have s*x 5 times sumtimes more but yes special occasions are good to have it on but experiment before hand so you know what pleases your partner for that special occasion who knows eventually it could become and XTRA special occaison.....

Answer 2

hmm okay s*x is when you and your girlfriend feel right to both to have s*x and responsible for it and if you guys are really sure not for special occasions, its not like its st. patricks day and u have s*x.

Answer 3

Depending on how long you have been in a relationship. Normally for the first year or so you have s*x several times a week. I've been with my husband for over 2 years and we have s*x about twice a week. Sometimes, however, we only have s*x once every few weeks. It depends on several things - stress, work schedules, how often you are able to see each other... I think that s*x should not be THE defining factor in a relationship, but I also believe that it's not just something for special occasions. Finally, it  does also depend on where you live - some countries or communities believe s*x is only for procreation, while others believe a person should have s*x several times every day.

Answer 4

It shouldn't be for special occasions.  She would be crazy to think that is what is normal.  Married couples in the Philippines younger then 30 have s*x 3 times a night.  You should at least be getting some twice a week.

Answer 5

sounds like the woman you're in a relationship with has serious issues regarding sexuallity... you're gonna have to sit down with her and have a serious conversation with her about her sexual history... this might be out of your control because she may not want to reveal all of the details that cause her to think the way she does.

she may need to go to couseling for this... also is she on any type of hormonal birthcontrol? women usually loose their sexual appetite when they are on hormonal birth control for a long time...

also 2-4 times a week.. depending on the stress level and schedule you guys have...

Answer 6

2-3 times a week