What is better to have kids early or later in life?

Question

plz say why with explaination

Answer 1

I think 30- 35 should be the best time for a man to settled in his life . till then He has quite mature and serious about life. he is earning  well, he can understand situations and can handle all these. You also prepared mentally and physically. and till you be 50 your children will be 20 years. they will have finished their studies and will be trying to settle in their life. and your job will still continue that means you will be self dependent  then.

Answer 2

I think early. About mid-twenties. When you have finished your atudy and are settled into a stable job and living situation.

Answer 3

Early is good only because you have more energy. Later is better because of the wisdom you have, you are more settled, probably have more money, and don't feel the need to PARTY !

Answer 4

later after 26, enjoy the full of life when you are two because you gonna get busy later with children and less to to spend together for fun.. Dats my point of view.

Answer 5

I'd say never. Its better that way.

Answer 6

Well it really depends on how early and how late you are talking. It is all about the persons involved and the situations they are in. It is better to be prepared for the comming of a child.

Answer 7

Not when you're young

Not when you're old.

Pretty much about... 23-24?

That's a good age.

18-22 TOO YOUNG!

Answer 8

early

Answer 9

around 30's will be great for me.

why?

because you can study at university and college, aplly for a good job and earn some money before having childrens. I;ve change my mind, 35 years old will be great time to have baby(for me).

Answer 10

between 23 and 30 is the best because you have energy so you can deal with babies.good luck

Answer 11

If it is too early, you may not be financially sufficient to support your family. If it is too late, you may have child birth problems.

Answer 12

I would say earlier because, you live longer to see your children get old and be around for a lot of your grandchildren life. i wish my mom had me earlier, she was 29 when she had me and I'm now 21 and about to have a kid, and it upsets me that by time my kid is 10 she'll already be in her 60's , where as my fiancee's mom will be in her early 50's when our kid is 10. I know it doesn't seem like a big difference in age but it actually is, physically and mentally wise.

Edit - 21 is not too young to have a kid. I already completed college earning a associates degree, I've already had my party days, and I've had enough experience with guys to know that my fiancee is the one I want to share the rest of my life with. As he feels the same way.

21-25 good ages, but in all actuality it depends on the person

Answer 13

Later because then you have all your life to live before you need these responsibilities....when you're young you don't know what you're doing as much, you can get a bad image, you miss out on all the fun you can have while you're still young.

If you have kids later on in life, you can still do what you want when you're younger.

Once you have kids, you're stuck with em...you don't want em to destroy your chances of fun or a career do ya?

Answer 14

Either, depending on your circumstances and preferences.  If you have children early (early 20s), you will likely be around for births of grandchildren and the pregnancy risks are often lower. But...divorce risk may be higher, and the kids could end up living with only one parent, being shuffled between the two, or living in poverty.

Having children later usually means the parents are emotionally mature and are probably financially stable and committed to each other.  Older moms often have more patience, as well.

Answer 15

I personally would say in the middle cause early maybe too early and you may want to live your life more before you have kids. But if you wait later in life and its too late you might be too old to have kids. but this is not for someone else to judge have kids when you feel your ready to have kids and lived your life.

Answer 16

later, coz when your young its about enjoying yourself while u can, having to be in charge of a kid fvcks all that up. do it when you're old and knackered. and by that i mean older than 35 lol.

by 35 u surely have had all the youthful pissing around that u need, and u have more wisdom and probably more money.