What is considered "proof of inclination and opportunity to commit adultery"?

Question

My friend wants to charge her piece of sh*t husband with adultery. And needs to know what kind of stuff she needs... He was in TX for military training (she's in SC), and met another girl. According to their cell phone records, the minute this girl comes in the picture, the phone calls to his wife decrease MAJORLY. I'm talking he would talk to the girl for hours and hours, or 40-50 times a day and call his wife once a day, if even. Then his wife found picture of them hugging and all over each other on her myspace. Then she found a message between her husband and a male friend about going on a cruise and her husband stated "Only if my baby can come I miss (the girls name)" I want him to pay for hurting her and leaving her scared and alone with a 3 yr old and a newborn.. Any advice

Answer 1

Live your own life and not hers.

Answer 2

She needs to consult an attorney and find out whether the state she lives in even considers adultery a crime, then take it from there.  

Answer 3

I think it would be smarter to simply seek divorce with the pictures and phone records as proof. I would not involve the chain of command because he may get a dishonorable discharge which will make it more difficult for him to find gainful employment. You may probably say that is exactly what you want to achieve but I ask you to put more thought into it. Child support will be adjusted to income and as a service member his pay will only increase. Your friend should file for divorce and ask for sole custody of the children and supervised visitation.

Revenge is nice for the moment but for the sake of the children she needs to think long-term.  

Answer 4

All you've listed is pretty good! Nail the SOB!!!

Also, if she can get pictures of the two of them, like kissing and what not, or e-mails that they have written, etc.

Answer 5

She needs to see an attorney in SC.  All states are different.  If SC is a "No Fault" state, then nothing he does will matter at all........

Answer 6

Your friend needs to consult an attorney ASAP.

That is so sad -- I know you are terribly angry right now, but don't do anything rash or crazy.  Keep a level head, take care and support your friend.  She is going through a lot right now and will need a good friend.

Answer 7

Stay out of it on his end.  Be there for her.

  He is cheating and divorce is the way the go for her.