What is dating like in Turkey?

Question

I have been dating this guy from Turkey and I feel like he pressures me so much for s*x, I just wonder if he thinks american girls are easy or if it's normal in Turkey to be that intimate right away? Also, is there anything unique I should know about Turkish men that differs from American men?

Answer 1

no he thinks american girls are easy, middle eastern culture is more strict on these issues than western culture but it also depends on what kind of family he was raised in

Answer 2

Turkish guys do think foreign girls are easy, especially European and American. It is not normal for them to ask for s*x from a Turkish girl because they know the girl will get mad and probably break up with him. They often ask foreign girls for it since they know they will get it. They are often jealous. Some of them I know can get emotional and sensitive but they do not show it from the outside, they like the seem manly and strong. Some of the ones I know cheat on their girlfriends. If you cheat on him... this will make him extremely mad. They like to flirt with girls even if they do have a girlfriend in most cases. I know from experience and having to deal with them my whole life. Break up with him he's a Turkish player.

Answer 3

Men in Turkey tend to pressure foreign girl for s*x. Just the way it is. Amean in Turkey if you're dating a foreign girl it means u are the man!! Imagine like dating the hottest girl in school, then u are the man same thing here. Its normal!!

Answer 4

I am an american who lived in Istanbul and I had a lot of problems with Turkish guys who were really inappropriate with me. I had some follow me home in their cars, try to touch me, put their hand on me I even had a guy expose himself to me in a park, broad daylight I was with another yanabci girl walking... there are many more stories I have like this.... unfortunately.

HOWEVER, my husband is Turkish (met him there he was a dual US citizen we came back for his job not for me lol) and he is the BEST I love this man so very much. He is so full of passion, warmth, giving, LOVE I could never go back to an american guy, the good Turks are very, very wonderful who will sing to you in Turkish and promise you the moon for a smile... so romantic I find comparative to american guys... just my opinion... so no one hate... one love, mamacitas!

So I found that many guys who did not have a chance to know or meet foriegn girls (like from the countryside) DID think we were easier or that we couldnt or wouldnt know how to say something in Turkish. When I tell my Turkish girlfriends how I have been treated they are frankly, shocked.

If this guy keeps trying you can say playfully "chok ayip" it means shame on you or "hiwan" animal or if you get really mad "kerpek" dog! Tell him your name is not Natasha and ask him how would he like it if some man treated his sister the way he is treating you! :) If you do it in a certain way you will thouroughly chastise him without pissing him off too much.

Answer 5

Tell him straight out you're not ready for s*x. If he insists on pressuring you, you should start realizing he's not the type of person you should be seeing.

Because Turkey has a private, closed culture, girls were not readily available to him. In America, he might have this idea that girls are "easy." Let him know that American girls have values too.

How Turkish men differ from American men?

Turkish men may be more traditionalistic. Like someone else said, they might get jealous easily too.

But keep in mind not ALL Turkish men will be like this.

Just like people anywhere, each man will be different even if he's from the same country.

Answer 6

turkish guys don't think europen or american girls are easy. most i met show respect and care about their girlfriends no matter where they come from .  this guy is pressuring you for s*x has got to be pretty desparete . and oppressed himself. or maybe that is how he has seen in his own family. i advice you to stay away from him. maybe he is not coming from a good family  . and he grew up in the family where women has no right or how his father treated his mother.  

is there anything unique I should know about Turkish men that differs from American men?  no there is not. every men is different

Answer 7

Like it or not, Getting intimate right away is considered normal in our times.

If you don't want it, just say No, thanks.

If he continues insisting, then just say, Bye.

It is not normal to judge his behaviour in terms of his nationality.

Answer 8

Men and Men. However Turkish men are a little different ... they tend to be more jealous and if you go out with them they do not want you flirting with other men understandably. I think the guy you are seeing just doesn't seem like a nice guy and it has nothing to do with him being Turkish!!!!!

Im not naive but I have friends who are like all cultures you have bad men and good men .. go figure. If he is pressuring you for s*x it is nothing to do with him being turkish its to do with him being a boll*x!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

Every guy that's Turkish is going to be different.  Normally, I would think that a guy could keep his pants on and just wait until you're ready, but this guy seems to be just plain disrespectful towards you if he doesn't listen.  In actuality, most (not all) Turkish guys do find American girls to be easy, but you have to establish that you're very serious about yourself and that you're not some Paris Hilton w***e who messes around.

Answer 10

According to Europe country of Turkey's guys , American girls are easier than Turkish Girls. This is the fact, but this does not mean  i support your bf's behaviour. I think you are more s**y than average girls.