What is going on...? Any Advice?

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So Confused! And Tired of Waiting! Advice?

Alright, Well My husband and I are TTC, its only been about 2 1/2 months, and i have been taking pre-natal pills for 1 month(I know it can take a while). Any ways, I was suppose to have my period the 7th of this month, and I have yet to have it, but I have been having some weird not normally me systems such as,

♥ Cramping in my ovaries and lower stomach, horrible but not unbearable

♥ I all the sudden got some kind of sinus infection/ headaches (?)

♥ I have been urinating a lot ( but I usually do so its hard to tell if its more frequent than normal)

♥ I've been very irritable and moody almost picking arguments for no reason.

♥ Very tired and Sore

♥ The skin on my tummy feels like it is being stretched, feels itchy and tight.

♥ Sometimes I get a dull pain (almost like someone is pushing their finger from the inside out) on my stomach around my belly button area mostly but sometimes it more off to one side than the other.

♥ Discharging a lot more than normal.

♥ Lower back pains.

♥ Very Gassy

♥ Last week 8/14 I had a drop of a peachy/pink colored blood about the size of a dime in my discharge. ( implantation maybe?)

♥ Look like I am getting a little bit bigger in the tummy area but have not gained any weighed.

♥ Sometimes I could eat everything others I get full after a bite of something that doesn't even sound good but I force myself to eat because I haven't been hungry that whole day I have to eat something.

♥ Dizzy/Nauseous here and there but it only last about 30 sec. and I don't ever get sick from it.

♥ No matter what i do i can't get confortable, im not comfortable laying in any position, or standing or sitting its annoying!

♥ My nipple are a little bit bigger and they are darker, but my breast and areolas are still the same.

Symptoms I am not having;

♥ Sore breast

♥ Darkened Areolas

♥ Morning Sickness

I have Tested like almost everyday since my missed period, but don't see nothing but the stupid BFN!!!! ( I am obsessive with testing I am so anxious).

So I go not know what is going on can anyone give me there opinion, serious opinion on what is going on with me?

♥ Why do have all these symptoms?

♥ Why hasn't AF come?

♥ Why am I was getting all these BFN but still no AF two weeks late?

♥ I have Early PT's they detect at 20. (can you get lower detection than that?

♥ I am really scarred to get a blood test because I am Scarred of the answer i'll get back!

♥I do appreciate all real answers. Thank you! ♥

♥*♥*♥*♥*♥*Baby*♥*Dust*♥*♥*♥*♥*♥ ~~~~~ To all those who are TTC!

AF= Aunt Flow (period!)

BFN= Big Fat Possitive

Answer 1

Go and see doctor please...........

Answer 2

I don't think half these people read the question... wow.

Like most I am going to say it is very possible that you are pregnant if you have s*x, obviously! But as for what you are feeling these all could be pregnancy symptoms like you are assuming. Sometimes when a women is pregnant her body slowly hardly or does not metabolize the hcg hormone in her urine  ( what the HPT picks up, sure you know though!) it is also possible that the hormones are not very sensitive.

I would say if you believe you are pregnant go to your gyn-o and have him do a blood test and/or ultra sound. This way you will know either way..

Sometimes, I'm guilty of this to and know it sucks, we can trick our body's into believing that we are pregnant. Giving us "symptoms" that are all psychosomatic.

Now, you said you are TTC. Are you tracking your ovulation by ovulation tests or charting? If you don't know when you ovulated then its really hard to tell if you really are late. I mean everything can make you late.. yah know? Do you know how long your cycles are..?

It usually goes... the first part of your phase-the day you start bleeding until ovulation occurs (follicular phase) can very from a wide range of time. The next stage ovulatory is also usually a guess unless you are tracking like i mentioned above. Now, your luteal phase- the time you ovulate until the time your period starts is almost always the same amount every cycle give or take a day or 2. it should vary from 11-16 days. 11 being earliest and 16 the latest.

Knowing all these little facts about your cycle will help you know for sure when you will be late on your period and when you should be testing.

If you know for sure that you ovulated( you can have anovulatory cycle where you don't ovulate) and you are late with AF then you really should go to your dr. I mean even if you are scared (like me) its better knowing then having that doubt or the anxious feeling.

Sorry if you knew everything I told you already! lol.

In my April cycle I got pregnant and I never had morning sickness my breast weren't hardly sore nor my areolas darkened.

Every single pregnancy is different!! There will never be 2 the same.

Sorry people on here are hardly ever any help. Lol.

But seriously, your best bet is to get blood taken have and ultra sound or just plain wait longer!

The benefit of going and seeing is 1. you will know and 2. if there is a problem then you can get help so you can try again!

Look on the bright side!!

My situation right now is I took ovulation tests. I know I ovulated. I am day 41 of what should be a 32 day cycle. I am around 22 DPO and no period and negative pregnancy tests.

I am going to get up the courage and call for a test. I think you should do the same.

I really hope we both get the answers we are looking for!!

Good luck and baby dust to us and all TTC.

--Becky

Edit: I forgot to mention that my pregnancy was eneded at 7 weeks by miscarriage. This time it seems its going to be impossible to become pregnant!

Again good luck

Answer 3

hold on.....

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Answer 4

You'll know when it;'s time to test, won't you? not trying to be smug, but we have no better clue than you do, and it's possible if you've been TTc but not for sure yet...try to be patient, I know the waiting is soo hard.  

Answer 5

Maybe you should try to test again and if it is still negative then you should go to the dr and get blood test to be sure.

Answer 6

you probably are pregnant...if your nipples are bigger than usual, then yeah, that is another symptom too  

Answer 7

Taking a stick test doesn't always work. Your best bet is to go to your doctor, explain to him exactly what you put on here, all your symptoms and non-symptoms, and have him/her do a blood test. It's a lot more accurate.

Keep in mind that not everyone experiences the same symptoms. My best friend and I are both pregnant at the same time (I'm due in the next few weeks, she's still got months to go) and we're experiencing the complete opposites of pregnancies. I had 7 months of nausea (including being hospitalized twice and having a home nurse for a week due to dehydration caused by all my vomiting). SHE has NOTHING. No nausea, cramping, sore b*****s... nothing. So you see, different people will experience different things.

And most importantly, don't stress. Stressing causes strain on your muscles and nerves, which isn't good for a fetus/baby. You need to calm down, take some relaxation courses if you must, such as pre-natal yoga.

Goodluck with everything!  

Answer 8

i think you should take a pregnancy test or go see a doctor. by the sound of your symptoms i think its more than a period. you might be pregnant.