What is going on here?some advice please?

Question

i have been seeing this guy(we reconnected after being out of hs for 11 years) for a few weeks. he came over sunday and when he left he said call me and i said ok and i called him last night and his phone went straight to voice mail and he didn't call me back.i have been in bad relationships before and so i automatically think he is with another women(which is fine cause hes not my bf) but now i feel like c**p even though he might have just been busy.how do i get over these trust issues i have with men? why cant i just relax?i am my worse enemy and tend to be very hard on myself and I'm over analyzing the situation.i always think i did something wrong.its just that he always calls me and cuddles with me.yikes I'm so confused.any one go through this after they started dating after a bad relationship?this is my first relationship in over a year.I'm not going to call him again cause i don't want to be pushy but should i call him back tonight cause it went straight to his voice mail or should i call tomm if he doesnt call tonight?i know this is probably in the wrong section but i figured that there were alot of guys in here.

Answer 1

Seduce him.  

Answer 2

Since you say he is not your boyfriend, then you should not take the relationship so seriously.   If he doesn't call you back in a few days (because as you say there may be extenuating circumstances) maybe you call him and be very up front with him (even if you have to leave a message on his voice mail)  Think of what you want to say before hand in case you have to leave a message.  In a polite but matter of fact manner, ask if he wants to continue seeing you (which you would like)  and if not you are moving on.  I think you are being too hard on yourself and over analyzing.  

Answer 3

yes it is the wrong section you need singles and dating

Answer 4

well if you've been in bad relationships go about the beginning differently. make sure hes a good guy before you give anything a way to begin with. second if you think this guy is a good guy then leave him a cute voicemail or call him back -- if he's interested and your cute about it then he won't think your pushy at all for calling. h**l think its hot.

good luck =]

Answer 5

If you didn't leave a message on his voice mail then i think you should try ringing him back. His phone could have simply been out of battery or a problem i have is that i use my phone as my internet connection and it cuts off all calls; sending them straight to voice mail.

I'm not really sure what to say about your trust issues with men, but i'd give him a call back, especially if you like him/had fun on the sunday.