What is going through her mind?

Question

My ex wife cheated on me...on top of that lied about it on numerous occasions, among other things. Not cool - but I love my wife and I was willing to TRY to make it work (through counseling) - but apparently she wasn't. She ran off with this dude she met online and accepted his proposal after they had only been together 2 weeks (she had been communicating with him online for a year while we were married). So three months later I guess she finds out the grass is not greener...she tells me she is confused (rather selfish because not only did she abandon me - she abandoned her child). She has a runners complex (her mother ran from her dad for 19 years because he was physically abusive..so i guess this is the only life my ex knows - to run). But then she has the nerve to ask if we can be friends. So my question is, what kind of woman betrays someone, especially someone who loves her, and then have the nerve to extend her hand in friendship? As if she did nothing wrong?

I should mentioned, the child is not mine. The child lives with her biological father - but I wouldn't think that would make a difference. To her daughter, she was able to see mommie when she wanted and now she can't.

Answer 1

She sounds like a hot mess.....get rid of her now.  

Answer 2

I think she is very confused, and not mature. She left her child behind, how awful. But you have to decide if a friendship is really what you want. Then she want to be back in a relationship with you. As you said, she thought the grass was greener, but it wasn't. Just gard your heart.

Answer 3

obviously she was not ready to be married to u or have any children.

you should just leave her alone it seems like she still wants to be with you,

good luck