What is happening? How can i fix my relationship!!?

Question

I've been with my bf for 7 months now and i think we have a strong relationship going. Lately, I've been under a lot of personal stress and pressure, and when I'm with my bf i end up taking some of it out on him. He just recently got a 2nd job so he is ALWAYS working. I feel very alone and left out. We are both 16. The fact that he is no longer around bugs me. I find myself getting upset at the tiniest things he says or does. Its driving me absolutely nuts because i can't even explain to him what is wrong. I am depressed and I do see a therapist. I just really want to stop myself before I totally ruin my beautiful relationship. However, I just want to completely be alone for a couple days. I don't want to text, call, or see him. Is this wrong? He told me if i did that I would make it worse for him, but i just can't stay happy lately and I want to figure out what is wrong. The problem isn't him I know its me....so what should I do? I don't want anything to happen to us.I need advice.

Answer 1

You two are both very young.  I don't know why he had to take a second job, but he must have had a strong reason.  It seems like the time that he spent with you before is now the time that he is working and you resent that.  Try to understand that he is working for a reason and appreciate him for this or it won't work.  Get busy with other interests and other friends.  If you don't have a job, get a job or do some babysitting, etc.  If you keep taking your depression out on him, I can guarantee you that your relationship will deteriorate and you will lose him to another girl.  So please stay strong.  Maybe financial issues will improve later and he can quit his second job and spend more time with you.  Good luck

Answer 2

My husband and I always get along better the more we see eachother.  The more we are apart the more we argue.  Work on cherishing the time you do have rather than resenting that it's not enough.

Answer 3

Tell him exactly what u told us.

After that just give ur relationship some time....

U guys are atill very young n if its menat to be it'll end up working in the end.