What is it like after you get married ?

Question

What is it like after you get married ?

Answer 1

Its very wonderful and love just gets strong and grows! Now I'm still a newly wed here and my hubby and I are still very much in love still!

Answer 2

For me, its my 'happily ever after'. Been together 9 years, married for 2 and we're so happy

Nothings changed between us to be honest, and Im glad

xx

Answer 3

For us it was the same since we lived together for 3 years before we got married. We did notice that small fights didn't matter as much and we seemed to have a new respect for each other.

~MLF~

Answer 4

I absolutely love being married. I married the love of my life and my bestest friend. There was no real adjusting after we got married. We just kind of went with the flow and handled all of our obstacles together. I love it!

What I think that makes a relationship work is communication. You gotta talk things out and tell each other how you feel...whether you're fighting or are just missing each other a little extra. Another thing that makes it work is to have a good laugh together :o)

Answer 5

My wife and I lived together for a little while before we got married (not that I condone that).  As soon as we got married, it was immediately different.  I would disagree with someone who says that it's basically the same.  I right away felt closer and more connected to her.  Like before we were indivduals doing our thing, and when married it was like "us".  It's hard to describe.  I love being married and it's been 15 years for me.

Answer 6

h**l

Answer 7

Absolutely amazing! We didn't shackup before we got married, so it was wonderful moving in together and living as husband and wife! You slowly learn everything about each other, and over time the love just deepens and grows... and it's just wonderful!  

Answer 8

Both parties gain about 5-10 pounds the first two years (if not the first year).

Answer 9

I love love love being married.  I did not live with my husband before hand so I was expecting a life altering change.  For us nothing changed.  I moved in and started making the house a home.  Never felt out of place and nothing feels different with us.  My main thing is I feel like I have my best friend over every night.  I love being married and having a partner in crime all the time.  

Answer 10

I got married 2 weeks ago and so far its been great.  

How its going to be for you really all depends on your relationship and whether or not you lived together prior to getting married.  If you already lived together, then things shouldn't be any different then it was before.

Answer 11

It's happily ever after, of course.

Answer 12

simply heaven on earth!!!!

Answer 13

good question.

Answer 14

shackles and chains ...lol no seriously it has been the happiest time time my life i am lucky i married a man who loves me more than anything we talk alot and laugh alot and we keep our family in church!

Answer 15

thesame as it was its only a certificate that dont change things thats why people live together and dont marry.

Answer 16

After the wedding comes the marriage, the most important part!

Marriage is not an easy thing... You are in a different state of mind now, than what it was when you guys were only boyfriend and girlfriend. Now you know you HAVE to put up with whatever little annoying habits your spouse has, and you have to find a way to work things out, because there's nowhere else to run off to to vent and cool off. Now you have to adapt to having a person you'll need to consult with for every little decision.

My husband's biggest issue, was getting used to talking to me before making big purchases. He was not used to "asking" anyone for permission to spend "his" money. One day I get home, and there is a brand new La-Z-Boy in the room that cost a couple hundred dollars. I was more than a little upset that he made that decision without me, because, even though he makes most of the money, I make a good amount too, and it goes to the same account, we have bills to pay, we are supposed to be "saving" money for a house, and every time I wanted to spend money on myself, I'd call to at least let him know...

He understood, and has been very good about it now, but it took a nice, calm discussion (after I had cooled down) to get him to see the "problem".

After that initial "adjustment" time (the first year, more or less), things start running more smoothly...

It's all about compromise, and communication...

Good Luck and congrats!

Answer 17

That all depends on how happy of a couple you are- Everyone is different! Sometimes it is great, sometimes it sucks!

Answer 18

whatever you and ur spouse want it to be.