What is it with girls?!?!?

Question

I ask a girl out and there like i only want to be friends. How do i change that (if you get me) and not be someone who i am not

Answer 1

Are you close friends with these girls when you ask them?

Being friends with them before hand will greaten your chances.

Maybe you're just not there type though.

Answer 2

you cant change it cuz its her choice

Answer 3

Sorry dude after the friend bomb, theres not much hope. :(

Answer 4

It probably just means they don't view you romantically. You can't change that no matter how hard you try.

But if you mean you want to be more romantically likeable, I'm pretty sure there are WikiHow entries that can be referenced.

Answer 5

be yourself and dont try to impress them they dont like u and r saying no in as nice a way as possible

Answer 6

You could hang around her alot and be nice and then when she feels like she comfortable with you  then you shold ask her again if she says no that time move on because she doesnt want you

Answer 7

Its ok to be friends because many a romance has started with friendship.

I would stay friends with the girls you ask out, friends go out together dont they ?

Answer 8

not much to change lol

she'll most likely always feel like you are a friend to her.

The only thing to show her otherwise would be to just lunge at her and start making out hahaha

and i dont think she'll like that.

mostly whatever you do thats fliratious or anything isnt going to matter much for her....

find someone who likes u backss!  

Answer 9

girls usually say this when they don't want to hurt your feelings so this obviously means she's not interested but is still decent enough not to say no in a humiliating way, I think you should just move on and wait to ask a girl out you have chemistry with that doesn't just see you as a friend. If however you really like this girl maybe you could try some simple flirting and act less like a friend around her, it would take time but maybe after a while she will see you as more boyfriend material instead of a friend.  

Answer 10

just be friends and act like you don't want her in that way then just occasionally hint that you like her but not like your desperate

Answer 11

Dude, I Know How You Feel, I Get That Aswell xD You Really Should Not Change How You Do Things, One Day You'll Find Someone Who Likes You For Who You Are!

Answer 12

umm don't change yourself for a girl and you cant change there decision its very simple she doesn't want you.  what does this have to so with girls in general?  she rejected you and thats it.  its not rocket science

Answer 13

yea i know

u cant just meet a girl and ask her out right away

Answer 14

maybe u aint ur type

Answer 15

You should just be friends but, try to make your friendship a bit more.... I guess what she is trying to say is she needs time :)

Answer 16

you just gotta be self confident and brush off the girls who aint digging u. theres always gonna be a girl who doesnt like you, just happens to be a couple of them. just brush it off and move on, theres really nothing you can do