What is love? Give me suggestion please i need help. Read my story?

Question

hi everyone i dont knw answer of this question i had affair with foreign girl and i was made for her but from few months she fights with me and she avoide to come at my place i dont knw why?? that's y i was lots of tired and in between one girl enter in my life and she did flirt with me and i told her everything about my life in just 2 hrs before i didnt meet her i never feel this before i dont knw what's this?? Nw she is telling me its only flirt i m nt interest in u. but after that meeting i cant forget her. Is this love??

Answer 1

sorry to hear this. i known its hard to determine the definition of love because im in the same situation as u. i think the motion that u felt in right now is not love, its infatuation.  u cant forget her because this is part of s*x and it's normally happened to everybody in their first time.

recently i discovered that a true love is built from enjoyable communication, time, understanding,willing to help/share problems and NOT FLIRTING.

Answer 2

First of all keep it in your mind Love is nothing. Just it is a time pass for some people and for other people it is sheer madness. It seems your main problem is that you are an emotional person.

You just want that some attention should be given to you.

At times you feel ignored, so you try to find some person who cares for you/your feelings.

Love is nothing.

If you say, I love her what does that mean?

It means you love yourself not the other person. Love is just sexual

attraction (infactuation).

Suppose you love a person and she is getting married to another person and that person is better than you in all respects. What will you do?

Of course, you will say her not to leave you and not to marry another person.

This proves that you love yourself that is why you will say her not to leave you. You are thinking for yourself and not her.

Answer 3

i agree wit ans 1&2 and want 2 add to it. luv is nt bound to s*x, place or things. wt we like or anything which givs pleasure or relaxes us is nothing but wt we luv. so anything u like is disturbing u, just change ur mindset to other areas of interest. it will solve ur prob & slowly u will u will be exposed to the truth.

Answer 4

In that moment, you felt accepted by someone...that is part of what love is...an acceptence of a person.

However, you have left all your emotions run, and now you know there isn't a chance, and she doesn't want to be with you, but you still think she accepts you and likes you, which isn't the case here.  I think you just really liked the attention she gave you and the change of how someone listened to you instead of yelling and fighting with you, and this has got you thinking about her.

Answer 5

I don't think it is because you just needed someone to talk to and you are wanting to put all your feeling towards someone or something. Find a hobby or something you do like to do and put your time into that and then you may meet someone thru a common intrest and fall in love that way.