What is marriaged like? someone tell me please...?

Question

my bf ask me to marry him and i said yes but just curious how is it like, is it different then being in a relationship or friendship.... i was curious coz i wanna be ready,, i love him so much with all my heart and gonna have his child in march excited lol thanks for u time and answers.

Answer 1

i have been married for almost 10 years and I love being married. I am married to my best friend and we talk and lay up and just enjoy each other. I will tell you that you have to be willing to compromise and make sacrifices in order for your marraige to work. It is not always a bowl of cherries, but wiht hard work , a marraige is heavenly, don't listen to people who say it's not...theyre just not putting into it what they want out. It's what you put into it. God Bless.

Answer 2

way different, u have to work at a marriage to make it be a happy marriage.  a marriage can be a good thing if you give each other what u need.  Make sure to still date each other and never go to bed angry at each other.

Answer 3

Marriage is like a three legged race. You have to communitcate and work together to move forward. If you don't, you will fall-Hard. Good luck!

Answer 4

Marriage is not the same as a regular relationship.  There's a whole lot more that goes into it.  I would even go so far to say that it's harder than raising a child.

I'm not saying that it's not worth it, it completely is.  But it takes a lot of work and compromise on BOTH ends.  

Things change when you get married.  It depends on you how it changes, but it will change.  Things also change when you have a baby, so prepare for that one too.  Sleep deprivation does a number to your s*x life, assuming you are still interested in s*x after you've had an 8 pound chunk of human come out of the same spot that you use to think was so much fun.

Just remember to keep your sense of humor always with you because you will need it.  Remember to talk about things instead of yelling, don't make major decisions without consulting each other and always put aside some time for the two of you (no interruptions).  

And above all else, make sure you marry for the right reasons.  The divorce rate is too high as it is without more people jumping into the pool without knowing if the lifeguard knows how to swim.  

Also, keep in mind this 'joke' that pops up so often in marriage humor: A woman marries a man expecting him to change and a man marries a woman expecting she won't.  Neither gets what they were expecting.  In essence, don't change who you are because you get married and don't expect him to change himself because you get married.  You love him for who he is, not who he might be.  

Good luck, get some extra sleep (while you can) and have a wonderful marriage.  And remember, the one thing that's constant in life is change, embrace it, love it and call it your own because it will happen and there's not much you can do about it except go with it.

Answer 5

It's hard work, with the new baby too, you will be going through SO much and be very 'tested'. A lot. Stick it out, keep giving effort to eachother too. Keep the romance going as best you can. It's a partnership. Always communicate. :) Good luck!

Answer 6

For an idea of what it is like for a young couple to get married (or live together) AND raise a child, you should watch the (reality) television series called "Baby Borrowers".  Please check your local guide for airtime.

It's about young couples who want to have children.  Each couple is supplied with a beautiful modern house and all the equipment that they need in order to raise a "borrowed" child for one week at a time.  The first week, they "borrow" an infant; next week, a toddler; and so on.

One partner must go to work each day to earn the money required to meet a modest budget (which is FAR BELOW what it would be in reality without all the free and discounted stuff that the couple gets to use on the show).  The other partner must take full-time care of the child during the workday.  In the evening, the couple is supposed to share responsibilities for the child, the cooking, the cleaning, etc...

Of course, the couples are monitored by the actual parents, as well as "emergency nannies" who will only step in if they feel that the child may be at risk.  Also, all of the children are healthy and free of any serious birth defects or other problems that would be far more difficult to deal with.

I hope that this helps you in some way.  Thank you for your excellent question and BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!

Answer 7

marriage is where the guy rules over the gurl

it is where the guy will love the gurl like himself

the guy owns the gurl's body

the gurl owns the guy's body

Answer 8

marriage is two people that turn to one. You like being with each other and you are always with each other. sometimes this does not work and there are problems but it is because the tow of you are not compatibule. you have to know that you want to be together. sometimes babies bring people together and sometimes they dont'  its either or .....

Answer 9

congratsss !!

Answer 10

You'll be sacrificing alottt, but its good if you're in love. You have someone there by your side.. I mean all the time

Answer 11

i'm not married yet, so i can't tell you, but CONGRATS!

Answer 12

I've been married for 8 years now, and we have 2 kids.  It's hard! I knew my husband 2 days face to face and we talked on the phone the rest of the time.  Being in love with the idea of being married wears off quick.  it's a lot of work.  :o)  Good work though.  Being married means that you respect each other in the morning no matter how nasty the s*x was ;o)  (wink).  Being married means being able to talk about the good and the bad, having no money, but being ok with just having each other.  When you're dating you see the clean, squeeky image, but when you're married you get to hear the farting in bed, the drooling on the pillow and you notice stuff, like he goes to the bathroom at every store or restraunt you go to, even if you just left the house a minute ago.   And that's just what you notice about him, who knows what he notices about you. :o) .  If you're willing to work at it, you won't be able to imagine life with out him.  I think about my husband leaving or passing one day, and I just don't know how I would make it without him.

Best of luck to you~