What is more important? what other people thnks abt u; or, what u thnk abt urself??

Question

What do you thnk is more mportant? what other people might be thnkng bout u? or what u thnk abt urself??

thnk about it.......

...if u truly believe in urself, won't u care abt what others might be thnkn' bout u?

...then, if u mind abt what people thnks abt u..does that mean, u don't hve trust n urself??

hmmm....sounds very confusing; but relevant!!

i really need ur help guys... so please, help me clear my thought....thnks!!

luv yaa..

Answer 1

You only know what you are inside and what you project yourself to others.Correction should start inside and end only when what you are inside is also the same what you project to others.

Answer 2

Don't believe those egocentric superficial plutocrats sons of b*****s! If people think highly of you then you are a sell out to yourself and a disgrace! **** everyone else. **** yourself. You are not a unique snow flake. You are not special. The sooner you realize this the better. I have and I am at peace.

Being prepared to die is one of the greatest secrets of living

~ me

Answer 3

Of course, what I think about myself is certainly more important. But we are a social being and therefore it is impossible for us to completely cut ourselves off from the society. As a result, what others think about us can not be ignored. In fact we can not immunize ourselves completely from others' opinion and what others think of us does have a great implication in and influence on what we end up thinking about ourselves........ in other words, other people's opinion about us gets duly factored in when we form a final opinion about ourselves.... if we choose to completely ignore others' opinion, we are likely to be in trouble and that is not what we would ever want!!

To summarize what I am trying to say....... it is our own opinion that counts more, but we have to necessarily keep a reasonably acceptable profile opposite others, because we can not maintain our own self esteem for long without a reasonable degree of acceptance from others.

Answer 4

I know it is more important what you think about yourself.

Because what you think about yourself is (projected out) and other

people will see what you project. If you think of yourself as confident,

energetic, knowledgeable that is what you will project to others.

If you think as some do that it don't matter what others think! I'm living

my life the way I want to, bla, bla, bla.

That is what they will project. Not very nice humm?

Pat

Answer 5

What I think

Is to present myself the best way I can, and not what other people think

For if you Love yourself, only then are you open to the love of others

Love & Blessings

Milly

Answer 6

My opinion is both are very important because first, you should believe in yourself  because you should accept as who and what you are and at the same time you should also care what other people think about you because their criticisms will help you to improve yourself better because these people were helping you to challenge yourself and gain your self-esteem and grow.

Answer 7

Both are important, yu need a balance. Only take into account what people yu love and trust think about you, because they can help yu grow... Ignore what those who hate or are jelous of yu think, becos they are usually wrong. What yu think of youself is the most important, but not less relevant. What yu think of youself enables you to be who yu are.

Answer 8

The most important is what you think about yourself.

In a day, 24 hours, you are facing yourself all the time; but others just a few minutes or a few second.

If you can't face yourself, you are tortured for 24 hrs a day.

Answer 9

Not confusing at all. One needs to believe in oneself before one can begin thinking about what others think.  The Bible states that God is no respecter of man.  Jesus said do not think about taking the splinter out of your neighbor's eye when you have a plank in your own eye.

Meaning you cannot worry about others until you know you are okay.

If you truly believe in yourself, you need not think what others are thinking.