What is my purpose in life

Question

I am a 27yr old single mother,not much real friends,most the guys i meet are bad boys,or just after s*x.

Love my kids,but it is really hard,i have zero help with both of them,when i say am single mother i mean single.....ive been trying to do a law degree for about 5yrs now,am trying to do it from home this year,its even harder,i have been trying to work at nights but again a real big struggle. I have told my tutor the difficulties i am facing,the y have given me extensions which i still cant keep up with.

Am thinking is law really for me,its obviously not working,i just think am wasting my time now......i feel so old,maybe because of the life experiences i been through.

Do you guys think i should be realistic and call it a day,with my law degree,exams october this year....

Thank you for all advise,past and present

xx

Answer 1

the purpose is to procreate and die. because history tells me that is all anyone ever really does.

Answer 2

It's really hard to tell where you're at.  It must be hard to separate your feelings of total exhaustion as a single mother, law student and worker bee from your feelings about whether or not you are pursuing the right career for yourself.  If you're nearing the end of your studies, it might be worth hanging on to finish it off.  Or maybe taking a break from the studies would give you some fresh perspective.  

You're so not old.  People much older do new things all the time.  27 is young, especially in today's world.  

Good luck...

Answer 3

wow! that is just life.......if everything was easy.....nobody gonna appreciated life.........winner's never stop........law that's a career...for life.....that might help to make your dream come true......but on the other hand you gonna meet more bad boy......hang around jail........

the easy answer ,just do what you love the most.......N just do it.......cuz by doing what you love you aint gonna regret it later.

goodluck!

Answer 4

Are you kidding your not to old. **** my mother is a single parent and she works too. But only now at the age of 47 she went back to school to get her GED and also plans on becoming a certified nurse afterwards. Your 20 years younger than she is so don't complain XD.  

Answer 5

Its really hard to tell but our purpose is to be what we are. Just enjoy every minute of your life.Dont make your life more complicated.Trust in the Lord.Ask for guidance.

Answer 6

Funny enough, I found your question on Google. I was trying to find out how to find my purpose in life and your question came up. I feel so empty right now because I know I'm not doing what I'm meant to do...but I don't know were to begin. You know what dear...this isn't the answer. Searching on the net will not help either of us. This is so funny because in helping you, I'm helping myself right now. As far as finding our purpose, I don't know what to do...but I'm willing to help you. If you want to be a lawyer don't give up on your dream. If you would like to,I would like to continue this conversation over email. I think we are doing the most important step though as to finding our purpose...we're trying. :o)  [e-mail].  

Answer 7

Well I dont really think there is a purpose to life, and even if there is we shouldnt waste our time trying to figure out what it is because well never know, the best advise I can give is do the best you can and have fun, if your studying something that you dont feel your getting anywhere with, then try something else, what do you like to do? Youve been studying law for 5 years and your only 27, youl get in anywhere very easy, you can do whatever you want, age is only a number and its better getting out there and trying different things till you find something you love then wasting your years doing something you dont want to..

Try and look at life in a good positive way, look around you, its a beautiful place, out of all the trillions and trillions that could have got to be here right now, its us, so appreciate it more, and think of life a purpose to have fun! Not to work.

Goodluck anyway, hope you find what you want :)

Answer 8

hard work will pay off eventually for deserving people.. so keep at it.. dont give up!