What is my sister issue ? worth reading ?

Question

I married my sister best friend 5 years ago . she has never really approved of our relationship .especially at the beginning she and her fiance were so upset by it and when we decided to get married she was even more pissed but she finally came down after our first child . she started coming around more more but her fiance is still the same. he still hates my hubby as day one. Frankly i dont care about what her hubby thinks but we decided to keep a somewhat relationship for our kids . she has a daughter as well . but lately everyhting seems to be going downhill . when we found out i was prego with baby number2 we've moved to a bigger house and 3 months ago my hubby 's car got totalled and he went and got a Mercedes as his new car . 3 weeks after we all met at a party and they were driving a Jaguar and a week after they moved to better house too . one of our friend at the barbecue who knows our situation from day one made a comment and said the competition is tight . mu hubby said who is competing with who? and they all pretend to laugh. 2 nights ago she called me and asked me if i am ever planning to go back to school . i told her school is great but not in my plans right now (PS . she doesnt know about my current pregnancy yet) and she started making comments like " oh is it because hubby got lucky and found his way up there in that company without a degree that you think a degree isnt valuable .?" that went right to my nerves and hit it . i responded what does that supposed to mean and she said because at least he should telling you to go back to school now .it is been 14 months that you had the baby ? it pissed me off . and i told her i will call her later and it is been 2 days now and i havent call her . what is her issue .? is it jealousy cause i married a better guy than her fiance? is it because i am the younger one ? she has always been the favourite and the spoiled one of the family ? what the heck is wrong with her ? should i tell her i am currenlty prego so she would leave me alone . ( the first time i told her about us having a baby she went ballistic, even my mom thinks i shouldnt tell either her or my dad until they can see it for themselves) what can i do so she will stop making those comments about my hubby they used to be best friend for god sakes .(they both swear nothing ever happened between them) so why is she so mad i married him ? everyone knows she changed since she got with her fiance cause he is the selfish one . help me do something before i break whatever we have left as relationship.

Answer 1

Tooooooooooo Loooooooooonnnnnnnnggggggggggg!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

have you ever straight up asked her why she is acting like this. you never going to get any answers if you just beat around the bush

Answer 3

Sisters aren't supposed to be like that towards each other. You're supposed to encourage and love each other. I have an older sister who never approved of my boyfriend for the longest time. I'm 27 now, and still with him and she is so happy for me, she got to know him and gave him a chance. She saw how much he loves me and she sees how happy I am. It takes all kinds to make the world go round. So if your sister can't be happy for you, and she is just not there for you, I'm sorry but don't speak to her until she can realize that she is in the wrong and needs to apologize to you. You don't compete with sisters, sisters are forever and if I didn't have my sister, I don't know what I would do. Try to have a sit down face to face talk with her, and if that doesn't work then obviously you tried and shes just not ready to be happy for you. She has a lot of growing up to do.