What is my type of guy?

Question

Dude I have the best personality around compared to some of the taken girls I know. Confdient, and really laid back, I don't get offended easy and my sense of humor is killer. I'm smart too, and kind of nice....but not super-nice like those doormat people who get taken advantage of. I love to rock out and have fun, but my favorite thing to do is to stay home with a couple of good friends and BS. I hate shopping too!

What kind of guy is right for me?

Answer 1

the one who will kill ur ego  

Answer 2

Well, let's analyze what the potential flaws could be based on your statements, sentence-by-sentence.  Be warned;  I'm probably going to be a little brutal.  

"Dude I have the best personality around compared to some of the taken girls I know."  

You sound defensive, which isn't a great personality trait.  Also a little overconfident and cocky, which can be a turnoff.  

"Confdient [sic], and really laid back, I don't get offended easy and my sense of humor is killer."  

We've talked about the confidence thing.  Confident people usually don't need to say they're confident.  If you were laid back, your first sentence probably wouldn't have started with 'Dude', which isn't a very laid-back way to start a sentence.  If you don't get offended easily, why'd you have to add the additional details?  And, much like with confident people, those who are funny generally don't say they're funny, they tell a joke to prove it.  

"I'm smart too, and kind of nice....but not super-nice like those doormat people who get taken advantage of."  

Smart is cool.  But to say you're "kind of" nice ... combine that with that overconfidence and I think we're starting to see your answer.  You're a bit overpowering, dear.  I have a friend that has a tremendous sense of humor and is actually pretty attractive -- only problem is that she's almost looking for an argument.  I can't see myself living the rest of my life that way.  There will be disputes in any relationship.  I don't need a person who's going to go looking for them.  Most guys agree with me;  this friend of mine is still very single despite going out on two dates with different guys every week through a dating service.  Your argumentative nature can also be shown by the fact you say your favorite thing to do is stay home and "BS."  Nothing personal, but the friend I'm comparing you to will also yak my ear off.  There comes a point where I want to say to her, "I DON"T CARE!"  And I can't help but think -- if she's that talkative when I'm not dating her, how much is she going to want to talk to me when I am?  

So what you need is either a very passive guy that will let you wear the pants and do all the talking or a guy who will go toe-to-toe with you on every little thing.  This just in -- those guys are very few and far between and the relationships I've seen with a person like you and the latter type of guy have always been full of fireworks and usually been a string of fantastic arguments before a break-up.  

So unless you're willing to find a guy with a weak personality and lead him through a relationship, good luck.  

In the meantime, though, consider sitting back and letting things come to you.  Turn that personality of yours down two notches.  Then see what happens.  

I know they say 'be yourself.'  But sometimes yourself is what gets in the way.  There's nothing in life that says we can't do some tweaking to make ourselves better.  

Answer 3

A guy you can boss around.

Answer 4

Gotta find that out on your own :) - Start dating.

Answer 5

A big-headed arrogant prick.

Just sounds like you'd have a lot in common.

Answer 6

If you're all that then me. But usually when someone thinks they are all that, they're not. Usually people who really are that cool are too cool to think it or say it.