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My live in boyfriend (whom I have been dating for 1 yr) has 2 (7&4) young children. He was never married to their mother but they were high school sweethearts that were together for about 7 years. (they have now been broken up for 3 years) Although the previous woman cheated on him breaking his heart they still have a very civil relationship. They talk almost every other day- "about the kids of course". She talks to his mom about 2x per week, even called his dad to wish him a happy fathers day!!!!! I have been very civil with her as well - we talk occasionally to make plans about the children etc. We all get along great and although its annoying to have her in my life I like that everything between us all goes smoothly.However now that the oldest of the kids is involved in school activities- my boyfriend thinks that it is acceptable for us all to sit together (me her him his family her family etc.) I however think this is a bit to far. I came from a split home and my parents never talked unless it was an emergency- my dad would call to talk to me and that was it. At functions both of my parents were there but they certainly didn't sit together!!! I myself wouldn't mind saying hello to her and then finding our own area- I am not fine having to sit with her (i don't particularly like her) and I think it is confusing to the children- the last function we were at his 4 year old starting singing "mommy and daddy sitting in a tree..." (the first 2 years after they were broken up if ethier one of them had a problem in another relationship they would get back together for a few days before ending it again- the children were aware of all this) My boyfriend says that he is committed to me and I need to grow up his behavior is perfectly normal to him------ is it? How close is too close? I want this man as a part of my life and I know his children will always come first as they should but does that mean my opinion means nothing?
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