What is she trying to say? I need an advice ASAP?

Question

Briefly, I've fallen in love, she is very beautiful and nice and friendly and so on, we are good friends. Recently she said that there's no chance that we could be together, because of our friendship. I told myself that I don't want her anymore, but I lied. I tried to, you know, "go on, forget her"

I haven't talked to her since that, but now we're back in school, and I try to help her anyway I can (as I always did). And yesterday she sent a message to me, she said: "now I realized how much I miss you.." and so on. Ah, the memories.. I'm confused, because I feel like I'm falling in love again. I know this isn't good, but..

Is it possible, that she changed her mind about our chances? Please answer.

Answer 1

Just don't sit there shaking the dice. Roll 'em and take a chance.

Answer 2

Dude if she really sent you a message saying that 'Now i realize how much i miss you' then i guess she's really missing you, you should not ignore her as it will just turn her off.

You should try ( If you want) asking her a second time cause i think she must have changed her mind.

By the way good luck...

Answer 3

I would be more apt to believe that she just didn't like not having you around all the time.  Give it time.  Good friends are a lot more important to have than girl friends.  Make sure that your love is a relationship kind of love and not just a friendship love.

Answer 4

that is a possibility.

but don't get your hopes up.

girls are confusing.

i'm in the same situation she is;

my bestfriends in love with me; but i have no feelings for him.

it's hard. now we're no longer friends. and i miss him; but i still have no feelings for him. so maybe she was just talking about friend.wise or she may have changed her mind.

ask her !

Answer 5

you should ask her what did she mean with missing you, u have the right to know wat is going on, so tell her that she is making u confused and u need to understand wat is this all about, talk to her in reasonable way and don't push her just try to understand, if u really want her and deep inside u know u love her then don't give up till it's all clear to u. For me i think she meant that she regrets telling u that it wont work, maybe she is trying to tell u that she made a mistake, and maybe she want to be with u now, good luck :)  

Answer 6

You didn't say how far you are in school, is this high school or college?

If its high school, just be friends for now, date if you can and don't obsess over anyone. School is a time in your life you should be getting an education and enjoying life. Sorta just relaxing before the real world hits you like a tone of bricks.

If your in college, then you need to chill a little and go slow. Seeing you again probably made her realize how much she missed you but it is no reason to get excited about false hope. Be careful that the relationship doesn't hurt you education.

Answer 7

I can't read her mind.

The best thing you can do is ask her directly if she changed her mind because she wrote "now I realized how much I miss you.."

However, be prepared for the possibility that she only misses your friendship and is not looking for your love.

Good luck!

Please remember there are other fish in the sea.

Answer 8

yes it is possible that she misses you sooooo much that she has changed  her mind completely about you. so just talk to her and get to know her better and then after about 6 to 8 months ask her out

Answer 9

tell her how u feel

u guys are good for each other

Answer 10

Man, I understand this. The girl I have been going out with on and off for about a year did this to me.. a few times. She misses you. She wants to be with you again from the looks of it. If she decides to give you two another chance you need to just make sure she knows that it's not just a friendship. Because if she goes out with you and begins thinking of you as a friend it won't last. Good luck my friend.

Answer 11

I would be careful and make sure she isn't just using you in between other boyfriends. You need to be aware of how she really acts around you and others. If she is more interested in you than pursuing a new boyfriend, etc.

The best relationships are based on friendship. I hope she is being sincere.