What is some advice for someone devastated by no longer having a girlfriend?

Question

It's been over a month.

Answer 1

Having a girlfriend can be an enjoyable time and a time of personal growth.

Being single can also be an enjoyable time and a time to grow in different ways.  

A month is a very short time.  Find joy in your life as a single person.  A woman will come into your life when it is the right time.

Answer 2

Just chill and hang with your best mates instead. Find another girlfriend otherwise forget relationships and see what the solo world can offer you.

Answer 3

Ha ha, not to belittle your problems, but I am so psychotic and dysfunctional that I haven't had a girlfriend in the last 8 years. Not to be nasty, but just jerk off and find something else to do with your time. I am 31 and middle aged women don't want what I have to offer. I do drugs and drink alcohol everyday. I am ready to die now.

Answer 4

If this person is that broken up about having a girlfriend then it seems like they really need to get more in touch with themselves. Sounds like he doesn't have enough going on in his own life so the girlfriend is everything to him. My advice to him would be to gain some activities that are more important than a girlfriend such as charity work, volunteering, go to church, sports, working out etc.  But we warned that unless he finds a girl that's not into the same things she'll just complain that you dint have enough time for her or that those things are more important than her which is the whole point.  But don't worry the right girl will understand, the rest are just for fun.