I am 43. I feel I have achieved a lot at my age. I have played most kinds of sports, studied classical ballet for 9 years, ballroom dancing for 2, go to the gym, am tertiary qualified not to mention on and off part time study for the last 20 years. Had a successful career as a designer after working really hard and long hours, then switched to study fulltime business management and became a PA, travelled the world on my own a few times for extended lengths of time including working overseas, bought and sold 2 properties, and am a profient cook, painter, reformed party animal and self confessed computer nerd. Basically for me I am happy that I have achieved everything I set out to do from the age of 20. I now work from home as a designer and help my partner with the admin side of his business. I am also writing a book. I met my partner a few years ago and we are now settled in a lovely house with my cat. Children were never for me. The thing is I am really tired of achieving. I need to rest for a while and take things in my own time. There was a point where everything got too much and I walked out of my design job had a bit of a breakdown. I don't like to overcommitt these days and do things in my own time. I have become a bit of a hermit and this is the problem. My friends and family remember me as the outgoing go getter and they tell me I need to get out more. The thing is that I don't want to. I am so happy to be a homebody with no courses or major deadlines to meet. Financially I am well off which freaks my family and friends out as well. I am not really interested in seeing stuff in the city or around because I feel for now I have been to every great restaurant, bar, park, concert place up and down the coast several times over. I love waking up knowing I can choose my hours for the day of what I do. I am a bit lazy, but feel I have earned it. What can I say to them to accept that this is how I am now? It may change in the future who knows, but I need a one liner I can say to them instead of going into a dull lengthy explanation to justify myself and why I like being a hermit. Any suggestions?
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