What is something you wish you could have done?

Question

when me and my husband both said we were ready to make our own family that's all we really kinda talk about we didn't talk about the fact he wanted a military schooled child(yuck) i think we can work this out but i wish i would have ask a little bit more questions do have any questions you would have asked first???? i mean any thing...

Answer 1

Don't let it stress you because ultimately, life is RARELY what we plan anyway.  Just try to be open to each others ideas. Both of you need to be willing to compromise. And both of you need to be willing to agree to disagree sometimes, too.  If you are pregnant now with your child, then you have plenty of time to discuss the military school option (which isn't so bad. is your hubby willing to compromise on it? If you agree to military school, is he willing maybe to support an extra curricular activity that YOU would choose?)

Answer 2

Not one thing.  I am 19 and I dont want to go party or stay out late or anything.  I just want to raise my son have more childresn someday and love my husband(:  I love being a mom and wife

Answer 3

I wish that I would have finished school. This way when my husband left me pregnant with our first child I would have had something to fall back on...and now that we are back together...I again wish that I would have finished school so that I could have a job and not be so tight financially...

Answer 4

  I don't live with regrets I believe things happen for a reason I would have liked to have done better in school but by me not doing as good as I wanted to is the reason I stress education to my kids.

Answer 5

my husband and i butt heads about discipline but its not that big of a deal because he is always at work and im a stay at home mom, so i usually get my way...

we usually talk about our differences in opinion and argue our points and usually meet somewhere in the middle...kind of hard to do with the military school thing...some things you just have to stand your ground with if you really dont believe in it..

so just do what you know is right...if that means a fight between the both of you about military school..so be it..

like with me for instance...i will never hit my daughter...my husband thinks a smack on the butt isnt that big of a deal..im not going to get into all of the details of my opinion because it isnt constructive to your question..but neither of us will ever hit her...i will leave if i have to but it is something that i will not budge an inch on..

as a mother you know what's best for your child...so just do it...

there are a million things i wish i wouldve asked him b4 we had my daughter but they are things that i never would have thought of in a million years as a non-mother...

Answer 6

I wish I could have done more traveling when I was younger.