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What is the appropriate age to have s*x?

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I am 13 and going through puberty. I keep having more and more sexual thoughts. ( about 3 times a day) Can someone please help me?

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Thats normal. im 13 and im going through the same thing. I would wait until your married unless you arent a strong christian. I guess i would say when your a little bit older and you and the "MR. Right" guy want to. Make sure you use protection tjhough when you do have s*x. Wait a while.
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Its normal to have thoughts--thats puberty.

But its not appropriate to have s*x until you're married.
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When you get married

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Make sure you save your body for the person you marry.
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Don't go having s*x because your having sexual thoughts . Your only 13 ! . Wait until your ready & make sure it's with someone you completely trust & love . Also , when your old enough to know you won't you regret what you did later on in life.
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I agree with the other posters, I was 18 when I had my first sexual experience and not only was it a letdown (as it usually is the first few times around), I drove myself crazy for two weeks wondering if I was pregnant or not and realizing I could never support a child at that time of my life.

Don't do anything. You'll know when the time is right. And when you do, don't jump into s*x right away - always take it easy. And don't forget protection!
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When you are old enough to support a child should you get pregnant. It's best to be married before having s*x. You can have all the thoughts you want. Just don't act on them.
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um yeah 13 is really little.........~xoxo ally*
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Push your horniness aside and go do something productive
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There is no "appropriate age" to have s*x.

Whenever you feel mature enough to deal with the consequences is the right time.

Being knowledgeable on STDs, emotional readiness and maturity is right time.

It's normal to have these thoughts.Hormones can do some crazy things.
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ASAP get it out of you way..do it with a male friend of yours that you trust.. i had s*x when i was 12.... ima male by da way... ull never feel the same... make sure u use a condum thou... HAVE FUN HAVEING s*x...
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thats normal, and when ur ready u will know it.
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don't think about it. go keep yourself busy with something else.
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when your married..Plus it's normal to have sexual thoughts at that age your only human..Just don't act on it till you find the right person and you know it's love..Don't be a sl*t
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when can take care of a baby
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i can't say there is an appropriate age.I had s*x this year.I'm 15.My question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
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I would have to say your ready when the guy you're with is someone you love and would want to have kids with. "Safe s*x" doesn't always keep you from getting pregnant. And If you did get pregnant it should be at a time when it's considered a happy occasion not a bad one. Plus you should wait until you have completed all the schooling you want to finish, because it's hard to care for a child, have a job, and try to finish your classes. Ideal Is no sooner than 18, at the very earliest, even at that age your still trying to figure yourself out and understand what kind of life you want. And I don't think girls should have kids until they're 25, even though I'm 23 and pregnant, luckily it's with the man that I want to spend the rest of my life with, my Husband. You need time to really grow up and live your life some before you bring another into the world.
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It's completely normal. I think when you find someone you actually love & feel deeply for, & when you know that you are responsible for the consequences that may happen. That's when you're ready. You should know.
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All I have to say is that 13 is way too young. I had s*x for the first time when I was 16, and I still think it was way too young. I'd say AT LEAST 18/19 and make sure you're in love with the person. There's no certain age where you say "Yup, it's time to have s*x".
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Just think about something else its totally normal, in my eyes, the only appropraiate person to do you-know-what with is your husband.
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