What is the best way to advice ur parents

Question

if anyone of them did sth haram...?

i tried once i got yelled at :S

Answer 1

advise - verb

advice - noun

Answer 2

I send my mom sms

Answer 3

My parents aren't arab......they know the difference between halal and haram. Unlike you arabs !!

Answer 4

the best way ever of advising older people is that when Al-Hasan (ra) and A-Husain (ra) taught that old man the way performing Wudu', they didn't tell him do this and don't do that, they just performed Wudu' while he was watching them.

Answer 5

Very gently. And in a tone that's more like a suggestion, and offer to help with it. Such as, say they are not buying halaal meat. Then you can save up a few dollars, and when your mother wants to go grocery shopping, offer to go with her to help her. (I swear, no mother will turn that down) And when you get there, say that you will go find some items , and bring back halaal meat, and offer to pay for it as a suggestion. Alwayskeep your tone and look non-judgemental and very open and sweet. And if she gets mad, let your face drop, nd look disappointed with a small nod and say softly "I'm sorry I disappointed you, Mama."  And drop it. (The matter, not the meat)

If it's somethign more serious.....do your parents attend Masjid? Because I had this one friend, her parents were drinking alcohol every so foten, but my friend really hated it. They wouldn't llisten to her, and got angry when she tried to help. So she phoned her imam, and asked for his discreet help.

The following Friday, his sermon was all about the evils of alcohol.

LOL.

Hope that helps

Answer 6

well dear you know well that parents do not like to be corrected by their children because it makes the parent feel awkward and quite embarrassed.  However in matters of haram/halal one should speak up even if it involves parents.  I think you will get yelled at regardless :P, but choosing the right time can be helpful.  Check their mood and keep that also in mind.  Preface any comments by saying first how much you love and respect them and how you only want the khair for them.  They may still get mad, but what you say may stick in their minds inshallah.  

btw, I cannot receive any emails when they are sent via Y/A for some odd reason in case you emailed me.

Answer 7

Well, I don't approach them in a argumentative or condescending manner.  I approach them with love and good intention, I tell them whatever criticism I have to with respect, politeness and in private- no need to embarrass them in front of anyone else (even other family members).  Also, make sure to have information to back up what your saying.

Answer 8

I tried too much at first but I failed too.

Just show them what Islam wants you to do so they will proud of you and follow you and will come to Islam.

PLEASE JUST BEHAVE LIKE A PURE TRUE INITIAL ISLAM.

Answer 9

do it as suggestion , or as a story of some one else , and give ur opinion of that story..

i hope u understand what i mean..

lol , allah bless u..

salam

Answer 10

i just tell them, they dont yell, cause they dont want us to do it. and they say they wont do it again.

just tell them that if they dont want to see you or your brothers and sisters doing whatever they did, then to not do it again.

Answer 11

My parents are righteous people Masha'Allah, they make mistakes, but they don't do wrong.

EDIT: Best way to advise your parents is to sit them down over chai and buskit (tea and cakes) and tell them where they're going wrong. I don't know about your parents, but my parents listen to me.

EDIT: Ranough, did you give me thumbs down? That's it, you're getting thumbs down next question. Regardless..

EDIT: Ok, why are you swearing for? Aren't you supposed to be fasting. "Pissed off" come' on girl! Get a grip. Go read some Qur'an instead....

EDIT: Lol @ I broke my 'fasting' so cute. Where the h**l are you from?