What is the best way to approach a girl or a new person?

Question

Sometimes I see a kid go up to a girl or a new person and they present themselves really well. I say to myself, "How does he do that so easily?

I need really good opinions/advice because my first day of high school is this Thursday and I want to start out being a new person.

Answer 1

You can't be a new person but there are some things you can do

to present yourself in a better way.

1. Smile- This is the best advice i can give you. When you

are smiling and having a good time, you come across alot

happier and friendly.

2. Introduction- Don't be shy to introduce yourself, chances

are a conversation will start up.

Just be an all-around happy person. Noone wants to spend time

with someone who is always sulking. Also, there's a really

good chance that people will come up to YOU and want to make

conversation. Good Luck!

Answer 2

See a girl you like smile at them and make sure they see. Now you have their attention, if they look back at you or walk past you later in the day and smile back, then go talk to them.

We are all people, we dont think any differently so they are probably nervous too. Tell them you're nervous and just go from there. It's easy once you get a little bit on confidence. Trust me.

Answer 3

I was one of the most nervous, neurotic kids you could find when I was a teenager. I was so in my head that I really didn't date until my 20s.

You know what you need to realize. What's going to happen with a conversation is going to happen. You're either going to strike out and it'll be a little weird for a minute, maybe a little bit of a bummer, but that's it. You'll be fine. Once you accept this you can approach the situation with confidence. Say hi. Notice something about the person and ask about it. Once you get talking it's irrelevant, you just have to get the first couple of lines of dialogue behind you and then you're talking and it's normal. At least more normal.

That's the nerves and like I said, maybe you know of something you have in common. Try to get talking. If you do that, and you're nice and cool (and they're nice and cool) then you're rolling.

It's important though. Don't waste your time trying to be a new person. High school is just like your previous school only a little older. Plus, it's the same people you've been going to school with. Just be you and if that means you've changed at least let it be natural change. You know?

Answer 4

You can't be a new person, but you can change the way you are doing some things.  I would start by approaching the person personally, introducing yourself, and asking questions.

Answer 5

Talk to her as if she was one of the guys. Shes a person too.