I work with a guy who seems to have no concept of an "internal filter". Literally every moment of the workday, he belches, passes gas, clears his throat, snorts, yawns, whistles, and sneezes so loud that the walls actually shake.
When he isn't doing that, he blurts out whatever he feels like saying, in a booming, grating voice. This often is some sort of comment that is hurtful and generally ignorant, about a person's appearance or other personal aspect of their life. He seems to fancy himself as having a great sense of humor, which is basically nothing more than a Don Rickles/insult type of "routine".
When I took him aside and calmly but firmly explained to him that his behavior is inappropriate, he got this hurt look on his face. After that, he said that "You all need to lighten up . . . I'm going to say whatever I feel like saying".
He's about 70 years old, and seems very much set in his ways; however, I'm not sure that's an excuse for him to be so obnoxious. It's even more aggravating when he appears to get upset when you ask him to give it a rest. I'm not sure if he's faking his hurt feelings, or if he honestly doesn't realize how unpleasant he is.
HR refuses to get involved, as does our manager.
What is the best way to deal with someone like that?
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