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What is the best way to move on if you miss the relationship you used to have with someone?

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I used to hang out with this guy for a while, we never defined what we really were, i know we weren't a couple but we were certainly more than friends and he would often make me feel special and I liked the attention. I wasn't sure if i liked him alot, but i was definitely attracted to him and interested.

He would sms me nearly every day and i would see him a few times a week, but one day he suddenly stopped contacting me, and within the space of a week he had completely cut contact.

I know now he is with another girl who he has liked for a very long time, but I don't know why it bothers me so much because i wasn't even sure if i liked him. I started to like him more when he became less available.

Its been 6 months now since I last saw him, and I want to know what the best way to get over him is. I hate the fact that it still bothers me that he just suddenly ditched me, but i can't help thinking about it.

there is a chance that i will see him out this weekend, and i'm worried I will get upset if i do, because i wont know how to act.

half of me hates him, and the other half missed him so much... I miss the friendship we had more than anything else.

what is the best way to move on if i dont have closure, and if i don't know why he left in the first place? can i move on properly even though there are still so many unanswered questions?

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  1. i just had this problem, you know what i did...i just tried one more time to contact the girl and promised myself if not now the never and when i was unsuccessful i was relieved.


  2. It took me a year to move on from an "undefined realtionship." It is really hard to move on, but it is definately possible. Firstly, you shold have a really close friend that you can talk to and actually express your feelings. The healing doesn't happen overnight though. It just depends on how long it takes you to realize that it is over, there is no specific time that you will suddenly stop caring.

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