What is the best way to not get a girl pregnant?

Question

I've started seeing a girl and we've started to have s*x. I'm a bit paranoid about not having an unwanted pregnancy, any advice?

Obviously we are using condoms. Is it okay if I ask her when she could get pregnant? Or asking her to take the pill? I don't want to offend her.

Answer 1

Don't have s*x.

Answer 2

Best way would be not to have s*x.  You can't trust her if she tells you she is taking birth control and condoms aren't 100% effective.

Answer 3

Easy, don't have s*x. And if you's can't control yourselves, she should have already took the initative and went on the pill or some other contraceptive than just condoms. You won't offend her by asking any of this. If you cant talk to one another abot s*x and contraceptives, then you shouldn't be sleeping with her.

Answer 4

not having s*x is the best prevention...but using both condoms and birth control together will definitely reduce the chance of her getting pregnant. and if you think you're going to offend her by asking her to go on the pill, maybe you should stop and think if you'd rather simply ask her the question or if you're ready to be a dad. i think it would be easier to just ask her to go on the pill :)

Answer 5

you sound like you already know and no i don't think it is rude if you ask her to go on the pill or have injection or an other contraceptives i think it is really sensible and there is not many boys/men that would want that. If you use a condom and she is taking the pill or injection then it is very unlikely she can get preg cause if the condom splits she is still protected so good luck.

Answer 6

Don`t do it

Answer 7

You can ask her if she is on the pill, even suggest it, you can't insist that she takes it because for some girls life isn't worth living on the pill. Your girl should appreciate you caring enough to talk about this.

Condoms aren't 100% effective ( great against std's however ), as you know but the advice about wearing them and withdrawing is wrong you are likely to have an accident in your haste

Answer 8

Hi you could ask her to go on the pill but she may not be able to take it, i cant take the pill. By using condoms you are being sensible. Have you had this conversation with her? Just talk and explain how your feeling you love her blah blah blah and see what she says. She may already be on the pill. Hope i helped

Answer 9

Don't rely on her, for gods sake!!! If you really don't want a pregnancy then stick to condoms.  They are nice!!! and you can combine them with all kinds of gel ....Mmm!  If you are finding it hard to discuss the seriousness of pregnancy with her...then wait until the time is right.  Until that time comes around.... keep your sperm to yourself, and enjoy your condoms and gel.

Answer 10

wear a condom.

pull out

be careful

Answer 11

Never mind offending her.  It would be much more offensive to bring an unwanted child into the world.

Answer 12

to be extra safe ask her to go on the pill or get an implant in her arm that stops pregnancies.

just tell her that your not ready to have children and want to wait for the right time and have enough money to support a baby.

Answer 13

not to have s*x at all. sorry to say but that is the best way not to get her pregnant

Answer 14

ask her if shes on the pill,

pill + condoms work great together ,x

Answer 15

Push her down the stairs every now and then.

Answer 16

There is only one sure way how not to get a girl pregnant, and that's to not have s*x!

If you are using a condom you're about 98% protected.  I think it is very responable of you to ask her if she is taking the pill, and if she isn't you have every right to ask her if she will start taking it.  If she is as sensible as you then i am sure she would agree to take it.

Also, keep wearing those condoms as they will protect you from STD's.

Well done you!

Answer 17

keep your pants on.

I know two girls who got pregnant while using condoms and on the pill

I know one who got pregnant on the shot.

And I know one who couldnt concieve with her guy

and in the end got pregnant after they broke up.

(found out she was 2 weeks along a week after

the break up)

Answer 18

if your using condoms then she shouldnt get pregnant. if your that worried just tell her that you ont wanna worry and that you dont wanna have s*x.

Answer 19

The only safe s*x is no s*x, honey.

Condoms and the pill are the only 50% chance that she won't get preggers, and I can't make any promises.

The only way that you can guarantee that she won't get pregnant is no s*x.

Answer 20

you should be ok using condoms but its far from being 100% safe-the only way is to not have s*x at all-i would get offened if u asked me to go on the pill too-how would u feel if she demanded that you take drugs that can mess up your body just so she could have s*x with her

Answer 21

I think that you need to be asking her questions like this (and should have done before you started having s*x), but kuddos to you for actually using condoms. They are pretty safe, but not 100%, so if you knew when she was ovulating, you would be even less unlikely to have an unwanted pregnancy (because you could avoid her fertile time). Most women ovulate around 13 - 15 days after the first day of her period, so you could probably work that out for yourself. That said, please note that this is not an exact science and that many women ovulate later (and some earlier). So, generally speaking, she is not fertile during her period and up until about day 10 of her cycle (although, please bear in mind that sperm can live for upto five days, so if you had an accident on day 10, it is possible that she could still get pregnant) and then after she has ovulated.

Again, I cannot stress enough that this is not an exact science and to use a condom at all times!

Answer 22

You should use the rythm technique so u 'Empty your load' on her instead of in her.

Sounds a bit visule for yahoo answers but the catholic church came up with the idea to stop familys having to many children, hence the Parents not being able to feed the children etc.

Answer 23

If you think of god when you have s*x your j erk off turns into sugar....try it

Answer 24

The best way not to get a girl pregnant is not to have s*x as there is no method of contraception 100% reliable.  If it makes you feel better, speak to her and ask her to go on the pill as well to reduce your chances - just in case the condom splits or there is leakage before the condom safely put on.  If you are at the stage where you are having s*x, she shouldn't get offended by this conversation.

Answer 25

use condoms and the pill and never mind about offending her for christs sake! there are enough babies being born that were not wanted, expected, or planned for. Three lives could be ruined here.