What is the biggest relationship crumbler for you...

Question

...and I don't mean just romantic relationships... friendships are relationships, too!

...for me, it's broken promises and people who can't keep their word...

Answer 1

people that just dont know how to have fun and never joke around or laugh and are just sad and emo and negative all the time.and when they never want to hang out and also if they never try to keep in contact with you even if you try to stay in touch with them, for example if you never called them just to see if they would call you first, you still wouldnt hear from them ever again or for a long time because they never think to pick up the phone. it yanks my chain!!

Answer 2

Infidelity of any kind - sexual is the obvious, but there are many other additional kinds of commitments or understandings that can be broken or violated. Nobody wants lies.

And BTW Milton, I have my own red swingline stapler... did you know Grand & Toy sells them now :D

Answer 3

feeling unappreciated!

Answer 4

broken promises are always a killer for me too, but I also can't stand dishonesty.  I'm always honest, my friends know that too so I prefer them to be the same too.

Answer 5

Anyone that lies to me and people that are only there for the good times and not the bad.

Answer 6

Milton, for me the deal breaker is lies.  If a person has to fabricate stories and/or lie then when and how do you know how to learn when they are being honest.

Answer 7

I would have to say when they eat all my food without asking...

Answer 8

Broken promises because lies and cheating fall under that category.

Answer 9

Trust. Plain and simple.  

Answer 10

someone that thinks it's okay to be dishonest and disloyal?..i hate liars and cheaters:(!

Answer 11

liars, I just can't deal with them

Answer 12

Lie and cheat

Answer 13

Totally agree - dishonesty crumbles most relationships. Dishonesty covers a wide range of behaviors from outright lies to infidelity, insincerity & broken promises etc. If you can't trust someone, you lose respect for them.  That applies to any relationship - romantic, friendship, family, business etc.  Once the respect is gone, the basis for the relationship is gone.

Answer 14

people who lie or don't appreciate the friendship enough

Answer 15

a lying cheating fu**ing bas****

Answer 16

People who lie and who do not listen

Answer 17

People who brake plans all the time, won't leave thier house, are lazy, and undependable.

Answer 18

when people lie...back stabbers, disrespectful people

Answer 19

Arrogance and selfishness

Answer 20

liers

Answer 21

betrayal

Answer 22

being lied to!

i dont like that at all!

im  a big girl, i can take the truth!

Answer 23

rudeness and learning that they've talked behind my back.

Answer 24

It is definitely lying.

Answer 25

Unreliable & inconsiderate behaviour...I'm exactly the oposite so I expect the same from my friends & get upset if that does not happen

Answer 26

guys who play soccer hahah jk

i hate when they break promises or lie to ur face

Answer 27

Dishonesty would be one, as well as prejudice or racism. I am generally able to forgive most things, because I know that I need to be forgiven too sometimes.

Answer 28

People who betray my trust... meaning spreading rumors, keeping things from me that they KNOW i should be informed of, or if they raise a hand to me. I hold grudges and can never let them go.

Answer 29

Lies!

Answer 30

People who smokes. That's the biggest turn off in the world. Also when people can't keep there promises. It's lame.  

Answer 31

liars, people who don't keep promises