What is the connection b/w love and personality? should love be absolute?

Question

What is the connection b/w love and personality? should love be absolute?

Answer 1

Man has failed to understand unchanging personality. Though we can hardly undertake to define personality, we may attempt to understand some of the known factors which go to make up the ensemble of material, mental, and spiritual energies whose interassociation constitutes the mechanism wherein and whereon and where with  God causes his bestowed personality to function.

The relative free will which characterizes the self-consciousness of human personality is involved in:

Moral decision, highest wisdom.

  Spiritual choice, truth discernment.

Unselfish love, brotherhood service.

Purposeful co-operation, group loyalty.

Cosmic insight, the grasp of universe meanings.

Personality dedication, wholehearted devotion to doing the Father's will.

Personality. The personality of mortal man is neither body, mind, nor spirit; neither is it the soul. Personality is the one changeless reality in an otherwise ever-changing creature experience; and it unifies all other associated factors of individuality. The personality is the unique bestowal which the Universal Father makes upon the living and associated energies of matter, mind, and spirit, and which survives with the survival of the morontial soul.

Answer 2

Love is simply the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own

--- Robert A. Heinlein

As you can see from this definition love is relative.