I am a big proponent of kids working out differences. I encourage these problem solving skills among my kids and try not to be the referee. I also have read a bit about siblings and rivalry and know it cannot be eliminated. But still the situations continue....
My older 2, ages 8 and 4 get along uncommonly well, I think, most of the time. But there is a whole ongoing conflict with being 'first'. Who is first to claim the seat at the table, who is first to get in the car, who is first to pick what it is they are playing, who picks the tv show first. etc. I try to let them work it out but it is frustrating to deal with every single day. I hate deciding who goes first. Of course, when it is time for a shower or time to pick up their rooms they are more than willing to offer up each other to go 'first'.
I know it isn't a huge problem and I am so fortunate to have this as an 'issue'. But since Yahoo Answers is for gaining input, I am curious if others have observed this phenom in their kids and what has worked or not worked. Thanks very much for any input.
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