What is the difference between my love story and june carters?

Question

we both fell in love with men who were already married (well on my situation it was a girlfriend) we are both christian women who tried to do the right thing morally but kept getting pulled back in by our hearts. but she is praised for following her heart and intuition and im called a pathetic man stealer. had she listened to those bitter judgmental people she would have never married her soulmate. people say its bad karma, they throw their stones. how can you judge one person one way and turn around and praise another? i love june carter and johnny cash because they did listen to their hearts!! did anyone ever think that the first relationship was the mistake? maybe some people are with the wrong person when the right one comes along. what do you think?

Answer 1

only difference is they are famous

Answer 2

It's called getting a divorce before you start messing around with another person, and him doing the same. How would you feel if you were his wife? You need to have respect for others and their feelings about what you are doing and with whom. No matter how much your heart tells you to do something, it does NOT make it right to hurt someone else in the process. You are messing with a marriage, not some little high school relationship. The only reason June Carter looked like she was so perfect in following her heart is because she was famous, and that doesn't mean some people didn't see her as a homewrecker as well. Get a life, learn to be independent and live on your own for a change rather than hopping from man to man.  

Answer 3

If you cheat on someone, it cannot be justified as "following your heart". But if you leave your current boyfriend and then pair up with an ex or whoever, that is fine.

It is just not right to break your commitment, especially something as serious as a marriage. If you are not satisfied, you break up and THEN follow your heart.

Nobody judges divorcees, but people judge cheaters.