What is the easiest state to adopt from?

Question

What is the easiest state to adopt from?

Answer 1

well los angeles we have alot of sexi wemen and fine men and they make cute babies and dont want them so thats la

Answer 2

There are several that have short revocation periods which ill assume is what you are looking for in terms of ease.  Arkansas lets out of state adoptive parents finalize there - so they would probably be easiest in my book.

Answer 3

The state of ignorance.

Answer 4

Why do you want that?  Don't you want to make sure that the adoption is ethical?  Don't you make sure that you are not violating the rights of both parents and your future child?  Why must it be the easiest.

Answer 5

for out of the U.S. south korea is pretty easy to have an adoption go through, and in the U.S. it's oregon, who have great civil laws.  the hardest is texas, who don't like adoptions, don't ask me why!

Answer 6

The state of denial.

Oh, wait, you meant like the geographical region with laws that favor the adopting parents more and step on the rights of the birth parents. right?

Perhaps Utah, but the agencies there are immoral baby-snatchers...it may be difficult to live with yourself afterwards....when adopting from Utah, that state of denial will come in handy.

Answer 7

Hi,

I see from your other questions that you just went through IVF, and 4 days ago your betas were rising, but only slowly. So with this question now about adoption I'm going to guess that the pregnancy did not last. I'm so sorry, that is very disappointing, even heartbreaking. I have been in your shoes and I know. ((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))

As an adoptive mom who has been there, I would say to take a break to heal from this big disappointment before moving on to adoption. Speaking for myself, on an emotional level, I would not pursue adoption until I had given myself a good chance to grieve and was sure I had mostly let go of the idea of a biological child. I say "mostly," because I don't think it will ever leave your mind completely. But I think it would be easier for you to commit yourself to being the best adoptive parent you can possibly be -- if you have loosened your grip on the dream of conceiving. You will be a better parent to an adopted child if your dreams are not haunted by the child you did not have.

I come at this as an adoptive parent and a woman who has experienced multiple pregnancy losses. I would be classified as infertile also, but I come at it in my heart more from mourning and loss rather than infertility. And I actually think it is perhaps easier to mourn and let go of actually conceived children. That is, maybe it is easier to mourn and move on from pregnancy loss than from infertility.

But you owe it to yourself and to your future child(ren) to let the dream children go, at least mostly, so that you can fully embrace the child(ren) you do have.

When you are ready, adoption can be a great option, but you want to be sure to do it ethically, and the fastest, easiest way is often unethical.

Best wishes to you.

Answer 8

Everyone is going to have a different response to this.  All I can say is that easiest is not always best, especially for the child.  

The best way to have your adoption run smoothly for the child and your family, is to do as much research as you can before proceeding.  The more knowledge you have, the easier your journey will be to navigate.

Good luck to you.

Answer 9

Oregon....

that and they believe in civil rights and provide open records when children are of age.