What is the hardest thign you have ever had to go through in life?

Question

..and if you don't mind....

what were your feelings at the time?? what was your mindset??? how did you get through it?? etc etc..

eleborate as you wish...

Answer 1

I tried starving myself a few times because every time i felt a bit of fat i felt like i was being stabbed. &last week i overdosed on exlax and woke up in the middle of the night lightheaded and sick and fainted.

I also got panic attacks and went to emergency for a stomache problem to they told me i needed a catscan or something and theyd inject this dye in me that would make me feel like i was on fire. I ran and locked myself in the bathroom, got a panic attack, and went blind for like 2 minutes and they dragged me out and injected me with stuff. Wasnt too bad but yeahh. I was also starving cuzz i didnt eat for like a day by that time.

Answer 2

Been through so much...

I think the hardest thing was dealing with the abuse my mother inflicted on me... mental, emotional...

I was beat by my brother my mom would just laugh at me (age 6-9). She never hugged me or told me she loved me. Me cussed me and told me she hated me.She would not talk to me for weeks at a time I would cry and beg her to talk to me, just tell me she loved me. Hug me I needed her. But she was cold, as if I was not even there. She never spoke a word.

I was so desperate for affection, I just wanted someone to hold me. I Found a way( negative) I knew it was not right. When I was very young a teenager, s*x was the key. I didn't enjoy s*x and I knew the men didn't love me. But it felt so good to be close to someone. It felt secure, safe. I was starved for affection. I needed human contact.

When I got married I could not get pregnant. I found out it was because I had a STD as a teen. This was so hard... I had s*x because I wanted to be held, and feel loved. Now it would affect me the rest of my life.. I wanted a child so badly. I cried for 3 weeks solid, I cannot

tell you how I felt. I wanted to Die. I had s*x, I did not even know what I was doing, and now this. All because I need the basic, love every child wants.

Thank God, for medical miracles, I had a surgery, had a daughter. that is so beautiful. Straight A student, Black Belt, and a Model. I have educated myself, and moved beyond this experience. I have always given my daughter love. we ae very close. I adore her. I feel sorry for my mom. I could never do my daughter, or any child the way she did me. This was very hard.. I give my daughter lots of hugs and talk to her about everything.

Answer 3

going crocodile hunter on my neighbors rottweiler.

didnt went well as it look how Mr Irwin did it

i felt embarrassed. i have never got through that event man.

R.I.P Crocodile hunter

Answer 4

To some people this is nothing, as compared to most ppl it isnt.

But when I found out my ex of nearly 6 yrs was cheating on me with my sister....

my feelings were out of this world I couldnt even explain what they were to be honest. And as people say times a healer and for me thats how I get through it.

Rarrr

Answer 5

My husband's death. John was 28 years old when he was rear-ended by a drunk driver. The gas tank exploded. John lived for 7 hours, but finally succumbed with 3rd degree burns to his entire body. I was with him in the hospital for the last 3 hours. How did I feel? Numb. I was in shock.

Answer 6

watching them put down my dog at the vet's. He was literally in my family longer than I've been.  

Answer 7

The hardest thing I had to go trough was a War.As a 12 year old loosing my father,my frineds and neighbors,having my brother missing for 4 years not knowing where he is. Watching the town i grew up in blown to pieces and having to run not knowing where thats gonna take you, not completly comprehending it all untill later when the monstrosity of it hits you at once . I can write an essay on it but I will leave it at that.,

The way i felt i can't really describe it's one of those things you have to go trough to really understand. You never get over it, it just shapes your life and makes any other problem you have in yor life seem minor.

Answer 8

My mother and father splitting when I was 10, then her going through horrible waves of her Bipolar Disorder.

  I had to take care of her, ATTEMPT to clean the house..everything she should have done. She still hasn't given me thanks, maybe some time later.

And I'm only 14, it made me grow up TOO fast.

It was just horrible, I was always upset, and I felt left out because we couldn't afford clothes..

Answer 9

getting in shape??

i have done many other things, but not sure what...

right now i dont have anything on my mindset

i know that getting in shape is the hardest thing to accomplish

Answer 10

Watching my wife undergo a double organ transplant (heart and liver) surgery in '04. I did what I could for her, but I knew the chances were slim. It was a 24 hour procedure, but she pulled through. I helped her learn how to walk again and was there for her as much as I could. I'm still a little overprotective of her to this day, but can you blame me?

Being homeless for a while back in '99 was kind of scary as well, but this pales in comparison to the above.

Answer 11

It was when my Mom died.  She was wonderful, I really loved her, she loved me.  I was devastated for about 6 months, a basket case.  The least little thing would remind me of her and I'd cry.  You never get over a loss that big, you adjust to it.  She had the best, most wonderful sense of humor of anybody I have ever known.  I still miss her.  But you do come to grips.  Life goes on.  I never thought I'd ever have a happy day again but there have been a lot of happy times over the years since she died.  Its still hard for me to use that wordl "die"--I catch h**l for it from one friend who says why can't I be real.

Answer 12

Betrayal...

Answer 13

that is hard because things seem worse at that moment then they really are. I look back at when my heart was broken, and yeah it was rough but it was for the best. My dog died, but a few years later I got another dog that had my old dogs soul and as hard as it was, I got through it. I think life is a series of things that just make us all keep learning, and keep going.

hardest thing to this day though...?

probably when my cat was missing, i've never cried so much.  

Answer 14

my bonerrrrrr

Answer 15

finding out my husband of 12 years was g*y and cheated behind my back with another man for a year. having to fight for a divorce from him,(he did not want one, i did, he wanted to stay married to me and still date men, yea right)  and deal with a young teen age son and reentering the dating world at the age of 34, boy that was fun.  going and losing my home of 10 years to for-closer because of lack of child support (he quit work, could not handle working anymore and i was working 4 jobs 1 full time and 3 part time) he wanted me to support him, LOL, the only way i got through it was a good support group of friends that had a great sense of humor and a pastor with one also, because if he did not have one i would have lost it a long time ago.  plus a very very strong cup of coffee when you get up at 6 in the morn and you just got off at 2 and you are still in the cloths from the day before, and you wake up on the couch and never made it to your bed. and you wonder how in Gods name you are going to make it though the day. PS i did it for 3 years before i met my 2nd husband. still dont know how i did it, all i know is i had to put food on the table and take care of my kid and we needed a roof over our heads, even if it was a two bedroom, two bath, basement apt,  we made do and it worked. all with the grace of God and a lot of Prayers and faith.  

Answer 16

I've moved about ten times in my life one of which was over the ocean to a country where I didn't know the language... My parents broke up when i was 14 and now my mom has a new boyfriend whose house we live in and I also have 3 new little brothers ranging from the ages of 3 - 6..... My dad has gotten married to another woman that he had an affair with while he was with my mom... so yeah... that was pretty hardcore :(

Answer 17

The death of my daughter.

My mindset. I don't know. I went kind of crazy for a little while.

My feelings? I was numb like it was a bad dream.

How I got through it? I have no idea. I have never gotten OVER it, but it was easier after I got pregnant again and had my other little girl. I wasn't dwelling on my first daughter's death so much.

In a nutshell, it was REAL ROUGH!

Answer 18

My grandpa died. Alone, afraid, mad.  I got through it by saying to myself "He was such a good person, god wanted him up there with him."

Answer 19

when my first love cheated on me  

Answer 20

the hospital!  

Answer 21

My only sister's suicide.  I was in total shock.  I don't know that I've ever really gotten over it.  I was numb for months and completely devastated.  I have forgotten much of the time afterward, as it's just a really horrible nightmare.  All I remember is crying and crying.  

I don't know how I got through it.   My mom helped alot - we helped each other - but now she's gone too.  It's too awful to think about.

Answer 22

Like everyone else in life.

Going in circles.

With lost sense of direction and purpose of life.

Like the blind blindly following the blind in time.

Until little horror chucky called out " Hey ! Mister !"

What are you doing clinging onto a coconut tree?

Yelled back "What?"

Look around.

Sure one was clinging on to it.

Quickly climbed down from it.

Walk away quietly whistling in the air with two hands in the pockets.

In case someone else took notice of it before it's too late with embarrassment in time.

Luke 6.39-40, 41-45,46-49

What do you think?

Answer 23

Read my profile. Coming to that conclusion is still reverberating through me like EMP from an underground nuclear explosion.

Answer 24

the death of my dog

he was the best dog i could ever wish for...and he was killed by a labarador. i hate labrador now

and i saw the whole thing happen right in front of me

but i know he is in a better place

away from all danger