What is the main reason for the problems create husband and wife?

Question

becasuse...................

Answer 1

what is your question because what?money is the main thing people who are married argue about amongst other things.

Answer 2

missundstanding...........plz dnt misundstnd ur wife&husbend it s the main prblm of husbend&wife..........if u have any dought in ur wif or husbnd u shud clarify dat..u both r sit and speak.........

Answer 3

Marriage !!!!!!!!!!

because of marriage they are husband and wife and they are husband and wife thats why they always use to fight.....................so the main reason is marriage.

don't take seriously it is necessary for everyone.......!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

Monogamy and the resentment that comes with it.

Answer 5

this question makes absolutely no sense.. rephrase please.

Answer 6

misunderstanding, lack of money............

Answer 7

lack of trust, lack of understanding, lack of respect, lack of equality, treating the other partner like dirt, selfishness, ego, authoritativeness

etc and etc

lack of interest in making thing work also.

not adaptative

not helping

many more

Answer 8

job stresses, financial stresses, lack of communication, lack or trust, lack of readiness to commit, difference in moral beliefs...and the list goes on

Answer 9

When two people come together in marriage, there is a lot of risk involved. Suddenly you are living with someone who is different from you, who makes mistakes and who grew up in a different way from you and thinks differently than you do. Not only that, you have to depend on this person to share a bed, living space, money and time with.

Marriage puts both the husband and wife in a vulnerable possition and many problems can and most definately will result at times.  I mean, problems about s*x, about keeping the place clean, about whose responsibilities are whose, about money, time at work or with friends and family members, about privacy and boundaries, about personal values and independence, about having kids and how to raise kids, religious beliefs, communication, politics,  future plans, etc.   The key is MATURITY (not necissarly age) and being able to make compromises and staying true to their comitment. These problems can usually be solved if both parties are willing to try and sort things out. Unfortunately divorce results when one or both parties bails on their responsibilites as a spouse. That is why there is always a risk involved.

Answer 10

getting married too fast like i did with my husband we were only together six months before we get married that is a mistake because that is not enough time to get to know them to decide weither they should be your partner forever also thinking that you love the person at first sight and money

Answer 11

misunderstnding and mismatching of feeling

Answer 12

Lack of communication.

Answer 13

Main reason is "quarrelsome" & " materialistic" nature of one or both.

When they do not put themselves in others shoes & shoot out.

This is pre-destined by ur previous karmas.

A most develish mother-in-law or a husband can become a pusicat in front of a particular wife. Or a most soft girl before marriage can become a tigress in front of a particular man after marriage.

Sometimes even little "snoring" can break the marriage.

But main reason is if husband does not give proper money to wife to run the house or does not give her or her parents some respect . Or he looks toward other women & indulge in bad habits or company.

These family differences will never crop up if before marriage both boy & girl---

1. undergo a 10 days "vipasna" course at igatpuri . see http://vri.dhamma.org  

2.At least girl must take word from boy that after marriage he will give her total take-home salary in her hand.

3.Girl will spend for households &

4.they will invest savings after mutual consultations.

5.both will have veto-power.

6.No shouting be done in case of a dispute, instead it will be solved thru yahoo Q&A.

7.Nobody will tell a lie to other & make any friend without agreement of other.

8. Every-day they will go to evening walk after meals & every sunday they will attend a course of " http://artOfLiving.org " by sri sri.

Answer 14

There is a wide range of problems that are created with a husband and wife. Like money, jobs, cheatting, bills, inlaws. Everyting becomes stressful when you get married. Pluse there is ones like me who marry just because they feel that they have to get married and end up in a divorce because the other person did not really love me he was just a control freak and he cheatted on me so many times that i gave up . Then there is always the problem withnot enough money for all the bills . There is also the thing where one or the oher is a control freak ver money or sometimes even abuse! Hoped i helped!

Answer 15

There is no "main reason".  Each marriage is individual... and has it's own reasons for problems and for ending in divorce.

Answer 16

in short, Lack of Communication

Answer 17

COMMUNICATION, UNDERSTANDING, AND COMPREMISING,AND PUTTING SOMETHING OR SOMEONE BEFORE YOU.AND JUST SAYING OKAY .KEEPING A GOOD UPDATE ON THOUGHT;S ARE WHAT SOLVES IT ALL

Answer 18

secrets and lies

Answer 19

marriage.

Answer 20

Almost always, financial problems & lack of communication.

Answer 21

Relatives.