What is the mentality of a woman that get turned on by being called a slutt?

Question

I am speaking about woman I knew that used it like and enjoy being called a s**t / w***e etc in and OUTSIDE the bedroom, in a certain context, like she used to love pretending she was offended, but really loved it.

This girl was not promiscous, she only had 4 sexual partners by the age of 29, 2 of those were long term partners, the 2 short term. she does not dress S****y and was not a freak in bedroom. she gave the impression in a sublte way to CERTAIN MEN, that she was. she came from a strict catholic background and her 3 elder sister are pious frigid etc, maybe that has something to do with it. SHE HATES it when her family call her names, and when women do.

She is not anti feminism, and does not call other women any names. she is well educated and she is 30 yrs old, do u think she will outgrow this?

i am just curious about her, what is your opinion?

Answer 1

She's a s**t. Don't waste your time analyzing it.

Answer 2

It could be argued that her upbringing has repressed sexual urges and while she dislikes women and family calling her a s**t this is because she sees its as disaproval. When certain men call her a s**t it is quite the opposite. In her eyes this is approval. She knows then that she's wanted. The older she gets the more she will appreciate these comments (unless she deals with underlying repressed issues) because as far as many are concerned, although this is not my view, she was in her prime around 10 years ago. Thus, any comment suggesting she is still just as desirable now in spite of some limitations, is flattery.The idea that some men think she's a s**t means that they think she has the attractiveness to pull just as many men as a 20 year old could.  

Answer 3

It's because human behaviour is so complex and so variable.  If this gave her some degree of pleasure, that's not pathologic.  If she enjoyed this and no harm came to her, it's irrelevant why she liked it.  I like peanut butter but some people don't.  There's no point in analyzing this.  It's a matter of preference.  There's no science that can account for why individuals like certain things.

Answer 4

i like being called dirty names in bed not outside though. dont know why it just turns me on maybe it reminds me of watching p**n when i was younger. i am not sure the psychology behind it but in bed i like being treated dirty

Answer 5

It's only a bit of fun

Like when I'm called "******"!

Answer 6

I can understand this is in the bedroom; what most people want in bed is the opposite of what they want outside of it, including myself.

But in this girl's case, maybe her religious upbringing is partly responsible for her love of degrading sexual names.

Answer 7

My future wife.

Answer 8

That's her profession perhaps!  They are wired to serve a men who is generally the bread winner in some cultures!

Answer 9

Yeah it very common. The name calling is prob. the tip of the iceberg. I'll bet she likes lots of fun stuff. No, I don't think it's something she'll grow out of.

Answer 10

Maybe she just thinks the word is silly or funny. Who cares though? It's good in a way that it doesn't bother her, because the concept of a s**t is silly and so broad...People get called s***s for the stupidest things, and they're made to be felt guilty for it.  

Answer 11

outside the bedroom women HATE being called a s lut, in fact is probably the most offensive thing you could call a woman.  is she attractive/good body etc?  it could be that she likes men to think that other men find her s**y/desirable/seductive etc.