What is the most effective way to enforce a 2-gender system?

Question

In the past, anyone who carried a purse, wore earrings, wore a dress, or did certain things was considered a woman, and without question. Nowadays, as men have started robbing women of their own exclusive identity and started wearing earrings, wearing feminine hairstyles, wearing dresses and other things, many women are getting their femininity called into question.

Wearing certain trappings and doing certain things should be enough to signify to other that a person wants to be treated as a woman and called female pronouns. However, mothers refuse to sit down with their kids and tell them how to tell whether to treat someone as a boy or a girl. They neglect to say, "Girls wear earrings, boys do not. Girls wear dresses boys are only supposed to wear pants. Girls have b*****s, boys do not. Boys are supposed to be rough, girls are supposed to be gentle." As a result of such neglect, they are raising up kids who harass people about their gender and go around rudely, nosily, and immorally asking people what genitals they have. So how can we stop this problem? How can we as a society start having firm rules for how each gender is supposed to behave?

A 2-gender system is the only way to help those with birth defects like Harry Benjamin Syndrome while eliminating much of the plague of gender-bending in our society. Those with HBS and unattractive women are harmed because of the gender-bending behaviors of transgenders and homosexuals, and the lies of the LGBTs which accuse them of being in their community. If a 2-gender system was enforced, with penalties for any crossdressing which was not prescribed by a doctor, those with HBS, gender-related birth defects, and unattractiveness would have much better lives. So how can we get society back to a 2-gender system?

Answer 1

People can, have, and probably will in future, cause great psychological harm to others by forcing them into rigid roles that go against their natures. I would never, ever tell my girl she must wear dresses and play with dolls, or my boy that he must not be gentle but he must play sports. They need to decide what feels right for them, and go with that. I'm sorry if people not conforming to rigid gender roles confuses you, but that doesn't give you the right to impose your need for labelling upon everyone else.

Just a few small details: Men wearing earrings is a centuries-old practice, not a new thing. Men wearing robes isn't new either, and long robes are pretty close to dresses. And how about all those women wearing pants, sport coats and even ties? Aren't they robbing men of their masculine identity?

I don't think you have thought this through logically.

PS -- I have never heard anybody ask anyone else "what genitals they have," but it would be hilarious to see what would happen to the asker if the person is a six-foot tall prize fighter or a female roller derby star.  

Answer 2

Okay, here are all the answers.

First for the background.  Natural law tells us that it is healthy for boys to like to be boys, and it is healthy for girls to like to be girls.  Anything else is unhealthy and even sometimes considered unnatural.  How male and female dress, act, and the roles they play are all part of social convention.  Social convention changes.  Social convention is different in every society.

If you are interested in controlling social convention then you do that through religion.  For instance, Islam places tight control on the role, dress and function of the genders.  Those who step out of line are punished and even killed.

Can you enforce gender roles without the context of religion?  Probably, but you would have to have a political that was extremely totalitarianan.  It would be like the n***s or Stalinist Communism.

There is a better way.  If you consider homosexuality, transvestism, transsexualism, and the other gender disorders as having its origin in genetics and in the operation of the brain, then use science to correct these just as if they were a disease.  Science is making great strides in understanding how addictions work and the chemistry of the brain.  With proper funding science can also provide the antidote to homosexuality, and other sexual orientations.  You will be able to create a society where the 2-gender system is the rule.  

Answer 3

How do you enforce a 2 gender system? The same way that any other system is enforced. You enact laws to dictate what is and what is not allowed. Then those that break the law are held accountable and punished according to that law.

My rebuttal question to yours though is Why? Why would you want to enforce a 2 gender system?

You say, and I quote: In the past, anyone who carried a purse, wore earrings, wore a dress, or did certain things was considered a woman, and without question. Nowadays, as men have started robbing women of their own exclusive identity and started wearing earrings, wearing feminine hairstyles, wearing dresses and other things, many women are getting their femininity called into question.

Well what happened when 100 years or so ago, women started wearing pants instead of their skirts? And they started doing things that was considered to be male orientated? Should we regress in our societal ways so that a woman's job is to stay home, keep the house, raise the kids?

I don't think so. The fact is there has been a blending of the genders and there will be more. And it will be ok. Sure there were men that didn't like it when women started working in the factories. And there were women who didn't like being made to only hold supportive jobs instead of executives. All that has changed. and for the better. So what if there is more gender bending. Why does it have to be male or female? Can't it just be human and human?

Besides you don't in anyway allow for inter-sexed persons. What shall we do then? Shall we take a page out of The Chrysalids by John Wyndham and "kill the abominations?"

I don't think so.

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