What is the one thing that you and your spouse fight about the most?

Question

What is the one thing that you and your spouse fight about the most?

Answer 1

Him letting the kids move back home

Answer 2

that would be s*x. enough said lol he wants it 24/7

Answer 3

Easy--money.  Not original, because most married couples fight about money the most.  And, I wouldn't say we fight about it, because we don't fight, but we disagree on how much to spend vs. save.  

Answer 4

MONEY!

Answer 5

Time.

Answer 6

disciplining our kids. He acts too immature. He doesn't know how to admit he's wrong and say sorry. Money.

Answer 7

our kids

Answer 8

Me not wanting to have more kids we have a 3yr old and a 6 mth old. I have secretly been on birth control since i had the baby and he keeps questioning why i am not getting pregnant of course he wants a son but i cant guarantee that our next child will be a boy and hes not willing to shell out the money for the s*x preference procedure so i will remain on birth control until he catches on and also i dont give him enough bj's he wanted ne to sign a 4 a day contract and i refused so he makes a fuss

Answer 9

Honestly it has to be how to deal with our 3 children.  

Answer 10

time together

Answer 11

Money and not having enough time to spend with each other.

Answer 12

bills, money, him being late and not sticking to his curfew.

Answer 13

p**n. Housework.

Answer 14

POCKET BEGGING BABY-MAMA!!!!!!!

Answer 15

His stupidity.  

Answer 16

s*x and our daughter...that sounds really weird in the same sentence.  We fight over who is the better disciplinarian all the time.  

Answer 17

I am 32 and my husband is 28. My BIGGEST problem with him. XBOX, he will sit and play stupid Madden football and shooting games for 6-10 hrs straight. I think he needs to grow up.

Answer 18

Her insecurity.

Answer 19

Besides money?  Our two grown boys living with us.  One is divorced and going to school.  One has to drive long distance to work so he stays with us at least 4 days out of 7 to ride to work with his dad,  he is supporting 4 kids (1 is his) and girlfriend won't move closer.  neither give us money.  If they were using us, it would be different.  Their Dad says we  need to charge them, i don't.  (We can afford them)

Answer 20

Her not being financially responsible

Answer 21

I like to go out with my friends as couples and he doesn't ever want to go out with our friends.

Answer 22

We fight about a lot of senseless stupid things....most of the time out of miscommunication..but the biggest one that causes the most drama and problems is my openness with my family and the 'he said she said' bullsh*t that comes from it.

Money, s*x, talking, and going out have never been problems...you'll have the lil tidbit fussing about it....but it ends in make-up s*x anyway.  But unfortunately her relationship with my family has caused the worse arguments by far....we almost didn't make it to marriage because of it....so it's something i'll unfortunately have to live with until they finally grow up and get over the stupid sh*t.  

Answer 23

How I can't trust him anymore and that he broke my heart.

Answer 24

We really do not fight that much and we have been married 20 years now.  We are both straight-shooters and tell it like it is and we have learned to accept that.  If I had to think of one thing that we fight about is that she wants to adopt.  We are both 53 and we are almost too late to adopt in any country.  I had kids with my first marriage, but my second wife and me did not have any.  She wants to adopt a girl and now that I have been out of work for over 18 months now, we can not.  But she understands that and will accept it.  I have been really looking too because I got caught up in a company buy-out and nothing has come up yet.  When I do get a job, I will make sure that we get adoption papers signed right a way because I want my wife to be happy.  Like I said, we really do not fight, but we do disagree on things, but know how to work them out together.  I am truly blessed with a great wife!

Answer 25

Me being on here all the time

Answer 26

His a*****e attitude.  Such as his **** don't stink!!!

Answer 27

We don't really "fight" but I would say doing things together.

I want to do more things together and he says he is tired and has no time.  

Answer 28

stupid c**p that doesnt amount to anything

Answer 29

s*x...I want it and the passion that goes with it.

He doesn't seem to need any of it...sigh!

Answer 30

Too much time on responsibilities and not enough time w/each other.  Four kids and 14 yrs